2007-09-05 08:11:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
BS. You ain't pregnant. Or you ain't 14. Choose one!
Enjoy,
DN
2007-09-05 08:15:09 · answer #1 · answered by Dalice Nelson 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Fourteen years old and pregnant...is a big burden. I don't want to advise you too strongly one way or the other; this is something you need to decide for yourself. It's a matter of what your faith and family advise you. All I'm going to say is that you are very, very young, and your whole life lies ahead of you. You have a very big decision ahead of you, and honestly, this isn't the best place to come looking for an answer. Talk to your pastor/preacher/rabbi (privately, one-on-one), and talk to your parents and grandparents. This is a very serious yet private matter, and in my opinion, should be treated as such.
Will people think you're a "whore"? Possibly. It's important to realize, however, that opinions are like a**holes: Everyone has one, and they're worth precisely the same. Some will think the worst of you, and others will think you're the bravest soul on Earth. I wouldn't worry overmuch about it.
2007-09-05 08:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by TARDIS_Junkie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off and foremost DONT WORRY ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE THINK... your the one that lives your life they can't live it for you so don't worry about other people take care of yourself.... being called a whore is something that they would try to say to bring you down, don't let other people negativity bring you down hold your head high and look the world in the eye. (where there's a negative there's always a positive), it may be a struggle to have this baby, but think about yourself and what you think is best for you... obviously you have to tell your parents about the whole situation, of course they are going to be pissed, but in the end they still love you no matter what we all slip up....(trust me).... if you really want to have this baby then have it...(don't make a decision based on what you think other people may think of you)... we all have to live with the consequences we make... it will be hard........to raise a child at such a young age....do what is best for you...but keep your head up...
2007-09-05 14:36:19 · answer #3 · answered by truelove/814 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a little time to decide if it's early on... I know there are tons and tons of couples out there who can't conceive and would adopt. I know that abortion is an option though it's a very personal one, and I lean toward adoption more... and then there's the go ahead and have the baby and grow up now.
If you are big enough to have sex, you have to be big enough to make a decision like this ...
I don't envy you... but sending out prayers your way...
Sorry about the people on here calling you a liar, etc...
Maybe you aren't telling the truth, but what if you are? Prayers are free.... sending them your way!
2007-09-05 08:29:15 · answer #4 · answered by nicole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen everybody on this site is goin to tell you what the moral thing to do is when in actuality they probably wouldnt do it themselves. to all of you sayin you cant get preg at 14 yes you can you can get preg at 12. as long as you have a menstal clyce you can get preg. now being that you r 14 i would suggest it is in your best intrest to get an abortion. yes its not right but you have to think about your life and more important the babies life do u really want to bring a child up in a hom where there mother is not even a h.s student and no father figure? i had one done at 6 months not to lng ago and yes you do feel bad i'm not goin to lie but i figured i was 18 and i had jus gotten my life together but not so much i was prepared for a child. no one can judge you if you keep it or if you give it up b/c no one really knows wht you are goin through why dnt u go to a planned parent hood center and they can refer you to a place to get it done and after that they'll put u on birth control. the decision is up to you. just make sure youre thingking ahead not in the moment.
2007-09-05 11:41:08 · answer #5 · answered by bia4sho 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl, just have the baby. Do not listen to what other people say. In the end it won't matter.
You are going to be a mother now. It is time to step up to the plate. You are not a tenney bopper anymore.
Those other kids have not the slightest idea what you are about ready to endure. No, you should not listen to them. Stick close to your parents, even if they suck, (I've been there) and they will become your rock.
2007-09-05 08:18:04 · answer #6 · answered by whatshamacallit15 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Having a baby doesn't make you a w****. Having sex before marriage makes you one. Do what's best for the baby and give it up for adoption. A lot of infertile couples out there would love to have your baby.
2007-09-05 09:55:10 · answer #7 · answered by pennypincher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't care what people say... There are lots of girls in your shoes. Hold your head up and everything will turn out great. Good luck!
2007-09-05 08:27:50 · answer #8 · answered by luveschvys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should never get an abortion due to things that other people think or say, make the choice 4 your self
2007-09-05 08:16:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your kidding right??? I seriously doubt you are pregnant and if you are yeah people will talk bad about you & you will have to deal with it.
2007-09-05 08:16:27 · answer #10 · answered by *~*love always*~* 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋