why are mens bodies less attractive than?

Question

a womans...If you disagree why? I personally feel like men don't have much going on physically...And plus, the penis and testicles just arn't visually pleasing to any woman I know.

SO true, beautifulirishgirl...

Look dude, there is no class on this...why don't you study up on ettiquet

ettiquette

Actually Jackal, I'm quite attractive to men or so I'm told. I've never had to pursue a man...they've always come to me. I'm sorry my question offends some of you so but the fact of the matter is that men will admit that what I'm saying is true.

Thanks for taking the question for what it is beauirisgirl

So Jackal since you feel women are so unattractive does that mean you're gay...don't worry I like gay men I won't hold it against you.

Jackal what is your deal, I mean why does this question strike you so deeply I didn't mean to hurt you self esteem with this question I expected more female answers because it's the womens studies forum. If you want to chew me our further than email me....

I think men look bland not ugly that makes them less attractive not completely unattractive. That's what a lot of men here have misconstrued. I like the company of men and I like their strong faces...I just wish there was more than the the straight pole look. I do like some aspects of a mans body but not the genitals and because you asked no I don't find the vagina particularly beautiful either. I like the broadness of a mans shoulders and small waists but other than that I find women better looking. I'm not gay.

Answer 1

It's feminism. Feminists find men disgusting.

Answer 2

Ofcourse men are going to say that women's bodies are more beautiful. They are. That's not what we are discussing though. The question really is, "Do women find men's bodies attractive?" Most women are attracted to men's bodies and while some don't find the penis attractive (some men say that about a vagina as well) women in general do find it erotic. And that's good enough for men...

Answer 3

This is not a fair comparison, a woman will go to a hairsalon do her hair, facial, manicure, pedicure, waxing among other things. Then she went home spend countless hours in the bathroom in front of a mirror to further plug her eyebrown and putting on makeup. She spent alot of time grooming herself and alot of money on cosmetic products. Putting sunscreen on the protect her skin in the day and lotion herself at night before going to bed. A guy just wake up comb his hair wash his face brush his teeth shave then go the whole process take 10 minutes. Imagine a woman legs unshaven, unlotion, with cellulite and varicose vein showing...attractive? Another word if women spent only as much time as men grooming they will look as bad.

Answer 4

There is some half truth to this. In the animal kingdom, all male animal are more visually appealing than the female. Fore example. The lion and his mane. The peacock and his tail. The red cardinal and his vibrant color. That is all I can think of right now.

Answer 5

Petruvsky, this is a very sexist question you've asked.

However, I will copy & paste an answer I wrote weeks ago -- one woman asked a similar question, but not in the sexist manner you asked. She actually considered male bodies to be equally attractive to female bodies, but asked why many females that claim to be heterosexual seem to act like male bodies are unattractive.

Here was my response:

Anyhow, I think a lot of these women are too proud to admit they're turned on by male features and the male anatomy. Plus, society tells women that thinking "erotic" thoughts -- especially erotic thoughts about a man, is something to be shunned upon. Women often feel "guilty" if they find they're having erotic thoughts about a man's penis. Sounds silly to me. Then there's that social stigma that women are "slutty" if they associate with sex, liking sex, and seeking sex. I wish women were as sexually free as men. Men openly admit they love vaginas, breasts, her butt, etc.

Another part of the reason why some "straight" women state that the male anatomy is unattractive, while the female anatomy is attractive, is due to the socialized conditioning of putting women on a "beauty" pedestal, due to a male-dominated society. Any form of appreciating the male anatomy is linked to being "gay", which is taboo among male heterosexuals. To be "gay" is a direct attack on a heterosexual male's manhood. In order to counter this notion, male-dominated society makes the "male" form seem silly, undesirable, irrelevant, and to be ignored. As a result, not only do men believe this inclination, but heterosexual women start to believe this about the male anatomy as well. Who's to say soft feminine curves are better than the strong masculine chisled body? You can't. It's apples and oranges. Both are attractive and can/should be appreciated in their own particular ways. Even though the ads, billboards, music videos, strip clubs, and television featuring beautiful women is directed towards men -- many women, as a result of this male-centric media orgy, have been conditioned/brainwashed into believing that only the female figure is beautiful as well. There was a time period, when artists like Michaelangelo and Leonardo Di Vinci would draw or sculpt the male figure. In this day-and-age, it is much rare to see heterosexual male (or female) artists paint the male form. We are told that the male form is unattractive and to be ignored. I, as a heterosexual male, am secure enough to admit that the male form is appreciative.

I was on the swim team, and wore tight spandex jammer shorts (picture: http://www.swimming.cz/images/FSIIJAMMER_xl.jpg ), and I must've lost count on how many women I caught oogling my package. Others told me later that they caught some women in the crowd looking at my rear side in these shorts.

If men wore tight pants with their bulges outlined, women would stare just like men stare at breasts (and women are always wearing tight tops for this reason). The difference would be that the women would readily deny that they were staring.

Don't believe me? Watch this video, where they do an experiment with several women at a restaurant, and the waiter is wearing tight spandex pants with a fake penis placed in his pants:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DrrF5utfstE

Then watch the lady at the end of the video that says "that was so disgusting!" This is what I'm talking about. Women readily denying it. In the video, she was mesmerized and fascinated while staring at his penis, and was looking "hot and bothered" and lost her concentration. Women are so full of s.hit, and are such hypocritical liars it's incredible. Just admit you love staring at penis, just as much as men have no problem stating that they love staring at breasts. The only woman being honest was the older woman that took off her coat because she said the displayed penis was getting her "hot", and she was holding her chest because her heart was fluttering. She also said she was "enjoying" the sight.

Any woman that says she's heterosexual while simultaneously claiming that she finds the male anatomy to be unattractive needs a serious head examination.

Answer 6

if you, as a woman, are more physically attracted to women doesn't that make you a lesbian? most people do see women as the more beautiful sex but that is reflective of the time spent beautifying themselves. Men don't spend up to $100 on a haircut or 2 hours getting ready. If they do they are called "gay" or "metrosexual." Most men are just not that concerned with being "beautiful" why they do every day things.

Answer 7

NO
I see da delicious differences btwn da curves and da bois
(look at dat shirtless Kendrick
is that not yummE?)
and I am sorry dat you don't like the purple wand
a beautiful work of art so sculpted
and how it represents
its thrusting capabilities
as for the dangling guys below
well we all have our vulnerabilities...

also dat happy trail
neva fails

****** sweetie pay no attention to da jackrabbit
he lost his mind
he is insane with rage
against half da human race?
he needs a good slap in da face
(maybe with a purple wand) hehe

Answer 8

When I was a junior in college, my Lit prof was a woman. She would definitely have disagreed with you; she thought men were mighty pleas'ing to her eyesight!
Men like to look at women; women like to look at men.
Otherwise, the human race would have died out millenia ago.

Answer 9

You probably are sexually attracted to women more than men.

Edit: Petruvsky: You must understand that no one is getting offended. You have that right to like women sexually if you want.
What you're explaining is not a difficult concept: If you don't like men physically, then you are not sexually attracted to them. It's not difficult... but it's apparent that you are going to agree with the useless answer. And yes, many men will agree that women have better bodies, unless they're not sexually attracted to women.

Answer 10

I don't think women are more attractive than men. I guess what you find attractive depends on your sex. I happen to like how men don't have breasts and they have wider shoulders. I also like their narrower hips. I just happen to think their bodies are more attractive than women's and it's not entirely because I'm a female. I tend to like straigher, longer objects more than curvy, rounder ones.

Answer 11

I don't agree with you. I think men are hot when they have good hygeine and shave and take care of themselves....just like women who are attractive. I don't know that you're gay but are you bi?