with protection! but would it be ok without because i havent got my periods
2007-09-05 07:15:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
what's ur hurry? don't feel pressured to lose ur virginity. Never, have unprotected sex even if u haven't gotten ur period yet. there are all kinds of diseases out there, some that stay with u for life. think about it...
2007-09-05 07:42:09 · answer #1 · answered by wanda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having your period or not has nothing to do with you being able to have sex. I also think that you should reconsider whether you really are ready to become sexually active. Losing you virginity is not just a physical thing, but also an emotional one. Ask yourself if your ready for what may come after, whether its different emotions or other consequences. Once you decide your ready to, make sure you wont have any regrets about who you lose it too and always remember to use protection. Even though you have not had your period, you need to stay clear from infections or STD's.
2007-09-05 07:31:03 · answer #2 · answered by . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure of several things before you consent to sex, because depending on your age, you could run into several complications with the law. In most states, the age of sexual consent is between 16 and 18, which means that since you're 15, having sex with someone older than you can get them in a lot of trouble. This is called "statutory rape". Before you fit into the age bracket of what's considered the "legal age" to consent to sex, you don't have the choice or the right to agree to it.
Sex isn't just a physical thing that should be done "just because", exampled by casual sex. Make sure that in case there are any implications or problems, you'll be able to handle the consequences. With this, I recommend you:
1. Talk to your parents, because even though it isn't cool to talk to your parents about what you're doing these days, they've been around the block a few times and can offer valuable information.
2. Make sure you have two methods of birth control, both an oral contraceptive (birth control pills) and a male condom to protect against accidental pregnancies. Since you're so young and still in school, it would be an absolute disaster for something as tragic as getting pregnant at 15. Whether you have your period or not, always, always, always use at the very LEAST, one form of protection. It is never wise to not use protection, especially at your age, where it could mean success or failure in the rest of your life if you were to accidentally become pregnant.
3. Talk to the person you're ready to "lose it" to and realize that it isn't "losing" your virginity, it's giving it to the person you have sex with. It's not something to do to be cool or popular, but something you do with someone you love and someone you trust. Never have sex unless you're 100% sure you won't have any regrets.
Sex is always better your first time if it's with someone you love. Me and my boyfriend were together for 2 years before we first had sex, and we're still together and just as happy as ever.
Make good choices.
2007-09-05 07:30:58 · answer #3 · answered by Alley S. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would use something if you do But that age seems to be alittle young i am 19 and i had sex for the first time when i was 18 and i was so happy i waited for the special guy its much better if your first time is with someone really special i am still with the same guy i think even at 18 was still alittle young in a way but only you can make that choice and so many people will tell you what to do i had it all the time and a lot of guys new i was a virgine and really wanted to be the one to take its a big deal to guys to sleep with virgines that all they care about and not you like i was with my boyfriend months before we had sex i just wanted to see if he really liked me and not for other reasons and and when you are having sex with someone you love its so much better i couldnt imagine sleeping with someone i didnt care about also if any guy is pressuring you into thats not good my boyfriend never brought it up when we where together he told me when i was ready than we would have sex and our first time was like WOW and he was so gentel about it all
2007-09-05 08:49:12 · answer #4 · answered by Peanut 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really truthful, it's not good idea having sex with someone. You never know what will happen with you. There is good chance getting a rape. You might end up serious trouble. I'm sure, high school should teach you about protect yourself and safety. There is too many teenage got rape this country. If I were you not do anything with guy, that you don't know, who are they? You can't expect them when they will happen with you. Just be careful out there. I understand that you hadn't got period. Don't worry and it will come. You will be fine till time to come.
2007-09-05 08:24:28 · answer #5 · answered by sabrinaelder 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should always use a condom, if only to prevent STDs. 15 seems young, so whatever you do, make sure that you really are ready.
2007-09-05 07:21:27 · answer #6 · answered by catsmeowjrk2000 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could, but you should not. Wait until you find someone that you love. I know it is cliche, but it really will be very special then, and a whole lot more fun.
2007-09-05 07:40:26 · answer #7 · answered by Marc G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still need to use protection especially condom, otherwise you are opening yourself to STDs, HIV and others. You are still very young and I really think that you shoud value yourself more than you are now.
2007-09-05 07:22:52 · answer #8 · answered by redmouse 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can. You just may need to use some lube to help penitration easier. Good luck and have some fun.
2007-09-05 08:59:41 · answer #9 · answered by aldrich061007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES,U CAN, BUT WHY? SEX IS SPECIAL FOR TWO PEOPLE THAT LOVE EACH OTHER. YOUR YOUNG. BUT WHEN YOU DO DECIDE TO,USE PROTECTION TO PREVENT GETTING AN STD.
2007-09-05 07:52:44 · answer #10 · answered by TABBYKAT34 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋