everytime we go out she just flirts in my view not caring
2007-09-05 05:43:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
no it is normal if you care,love her
regards x kitti x
2007-09-05 05:50:34 · answer #1 · answered by misskitti7® 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not wrong to feel jealous it is a natural emotion. However, it can also be one of the most destructive emotions going.
If you feel secure in the knowledge that yes she flirts, but that is it and she will always be coming home with you, then perhaps you need to look deep into your own insecurities.
If however, there is the real potential that one night you may be going home alone then It is probably confrontation time.
This does not have to be an all guns blazing do or die thing, but it could be done when you have her all to yourself. Pamper her and make her feel loved and needed and then explain that sometimes her actions upset you and do make you jealous.
If she loves you she will explain her side and try to change for your benefit. If not then I'm afraid you may be in a one sided relationship, and then it is up to you to decide if it is worth continuing it.
Please, please, whatever you do , do not let yourself be consumed by jealousy because it destroys too many otherwise beautiful people.
2007-09-05 12:39:37 · answer #2 · answered by steve 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hardly know what to say to that diatribe. Have you met Smiley? I just answered two of her questions and I think you'd get along just fine. I wonder if you might be more comfortable living in a society elsewhere on the earth that may be a bit more traditional? I believe there are still some less industrialized places left, where gender roles are still, by and large, more like the 1900s. Understand I don't necessarily disagree with your feelings about the bedroom being so far into the ballroom. I do however fear for your ultimate sanity if you choose to become so much of a misanthrope that you lock yourself away, ala Scrooge. Seems a change of abode might be your best option. It's quiet in the north country areas, and in the midwest. If you are in a city.. get thee to a country spot, young man :) Ever consider setting up a blog page? If you are going to write stream of consciousness posts, you might as well do so where more people may notice you.
2016-05-17 09:21:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is she flirting with other women? Ask her this question. It is wrong of her to do this if she knows it is making you jealous, however she may not know. She may just be being her flirty self, thinking that you don't have a problem with it. I'd get it out in the open as you don't want the jealousy to eat you up!
2007-09-06 01:08:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A wee bit of jealousy is a healthy thing in a relationship. Nothing to be concerned about, however, if it becomes obsessionally!!! Why does you lover feel the need to flirt?
Is she insecure? Are you giving her the attention she needs? Why are you two not talking about it instead of talking to 'strangers'?
Talk to each other, Good Luck
XX
2007-09-08 05:33:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isnt bad to feel a normal emotion its trying to control such and monitoring it to make sure it does not go overboard..i know i naturaly like meeting new people and i was very secure with my gf but i guess she always assumed i was flirting with other girls and i never gave her cause to think i would cheat or be unfaithful but in her case she has been unfaithful so i had reason to be upset when i saw her flirting with someone else..if she has given you no reason to doubt her or be jealouse then don't trip so much take heart that she loves you and goes home with you not another..its healthy to have some jealousy but communicate your emotions with each other or she will assume it doesn't bother you and continue doing it..good luck to u both~
2007-09-06 00:57:44 · answer #6 · answered by Charmer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not wrong but you could be feeling insecure within the relationship. She may just be a natural flirt, enjoy the attention but not want it to go any further. Watch how she reacts if/when someone responds - does she back off and cool down? if so she's just playing so don't worry.
2007-09-05 20:44:17 · answer #7 · answered by alex s 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The feeling of jealousy happens. What you do with it is what matters. Do you yell at her? Get angry? Have you told her that it's frustrating?
For me it all comes down to a simple thing: I know that my partner is going home with me. The father of a friend of mine said once, "Just because I'm on a diet, doesn't mean I can't look at the menu." I like that philosophy!
2007-09-05 05:53:37 · answer #8 · answered by mouse_726 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Jealously is natural , but if it is getting to you or she is doing it intentionaly then u need to speak to her. Some ppl are just naturaaly flirty though and dont realise either way you should tell her how you feel
2007-09-05 06:21:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, flirting is fine, touching is a no go.
2007-09-06 04:59:52 · answer #10 · answered by Reasonably_Minded 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋