first he said that he only had one relationship with a girl and she left him for someone better, then he said that she was not the only one that he had several relationships with a lot of girl mostly for just having sex with them and today he says that they were all lies and the truth was that he was a virgin when he met me and i was his first real relationship. i dont know if i should trust him anymore..
he is 24 and its been 10 months since we first met.
2007-09-05 05:06:16 · 21 answers · asked by lonlie 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
no man would admit to virginity, when he's not.
he was a virgin when he met you. the lies, forgive him. he was just a bit insecure.
2007-09-05 05:12:14 · answer #1 · answered by James 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
being a virgin when your a guy in your twenties is pretty embarassing...thats why he was lying the whole time. guys are really sensitive about that...i'm sure he's telling the truth now, he has no reason to lie about being a virgin...and i would forgive him. if there are a bunch of other things that you think he might have been lying about, then i would say if you feel like you can't trust him, than leave him...but i think that lie alone is not worth breaking up with him over especially if you really care about him. your the only one that can decide if he deserves a second chance.
2007-09-05 05:22:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your asking the question but I think you already know the answer a lot of times as women (because we are so smart) wink! by the time we are asking the questions we already know it's time to go and we just want someone else to tell us what we already know! Keep it movin baby! Before you know it it will be ten years and he will still be lying about somethin! Frankly he sounds crazy. Don't waste your time, be thankful he showed you his lying ways ten months into the game and not longer!
Cut your losses. If you really like him, and it sounds like you do, it will hurt but there is a lesson in pain! Feel your pain let it work itself through you, and move on. You sound like a smart girl your probably attractive (that's who they lie to the most! the pretty ones) you will find someone better. Hell you deserve it!
2007-09-05 05:21:19 · answer #3 · answered by sosexicopgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is very insecure to make this stuff up. You need to decide if this coming clean with the lies is a new start for your relationship and that you can trust him now or if you'll always be questioning everything he says. If you find yourself frequently doubting him, just end it, it can't go anywhere good.
2007-09-05 05:12:11 · answer #4 · answered by PandaJ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Kick this bloke to the kerb - boy is he a retard.
I would have thought he would have grown out of this type of patheticness.
My ex told silly, pathetic lies like this, however, I was young and foolish and was with him for 10 years - unfortunately he never stopped. I just wished I had the common sense then that I have now!!!!!
Get rid of him, if he's lying about stupid, pointless things now, imagine the whoopers you are going to hear in the future!!!!
2007-09-05 05:55:08 · answer #5 · answered by niccilicci 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I hate to tell you this but you better start thinking about moving on. Once a person has lied the trust is gone forever. Even if you want to trust him or think you can trust him there will always be the voice in the back of your mind saying "was that just a lie?". You've been together 10 mos so things can't be all bad but you should seriously consider your future with this man.
2007-09-05 05:14:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
People like this will lie about things both significant (number or partners) and insignificant (what they had for dinner last night). Trust me, I dated someone like this for over a year. Don't let him justify his lies on the basis he was embarassed or scared. Trust is what is most important to a relationship. Love comes second. How can you love someone you don't trust? You can't.
2007-09-05 05:12:25 · answer #7 · answered by Monica S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Watch out for liars. On the other hand virginity is a sensitive subject for guys. He was probably just embarrased to admit that he was, still no reason to lie so be careful. talk to him and judge from there if he owns up and doesnt lie again would you stil want him?
2007-09-05 05:23:36 · answer #8 · answered by Jynn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't trust him at all. There should be no reason to lie. You can't go to sleeping with many girls to all of a sudden being a virgin. You just made yourself look totally stupid and pretty nasty. Find another honest boyfriend.
2007-09-05 05:12:57 · answer #9 · answered by Sleepy Mommy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this the only subject that you have caught him lying? If it is a pattern, save yourself alot of time and move on; if he is just insecure about his past, have a talk with him on a serious level and let him know that if he can't be honest, you are not interested in dating him. Then wait and see. Time will tell, and there's no fire, right?
2007-09-05 05:15:45 · answer #10 · answered by dhdaddy2003 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps you might want to re-evaluate your relationship with him. Another thing is that you don't have the right to question his past relationships. Whatever happened back then is way before you, and it shouldn't matter what he did before he met you.
2007-09-05 05:14:02 · answer #11 · answered by lucie73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋