so this is really..uhm yes weird. im 13 years old. 8th grade..and i got fingered.I let the kid do it..i kinda liked him..and plus..idk its like..oh nevermind..too the point. Am i still a virgin?? I mean my cherry didnt pop, but I'm pretty sure i popped it myself..Im just worried that ive done something wrong so young...im open for any answerrrsss.
2007-09-05 04:09:51 · 21 answers · asked by Mari 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
hahha; no massie block would not dothis!; i used kinda a pseudonym ; and i did brake my hymen ; i no i did ; ith i think maybe a hairbrush like one person said ; or it was like a pop bottle ; when i was 12 ; yeah i think i will slow down a little ; but i just dont know anymore ;
2007-09-05 05:21:33 · update #1
oh, and i really dont think im to young to get fingered.i just read something in a magazine that people feel that it is being like sexual. idkk idccc. .to you to give head?yes!! and person down there my first kiss/makeout was 11. ; i grew up a little fast. thats just how it is..
2007-09-05 05:24:05 · update #2
Laylah K ; sweetie , my mom died two years ago, maybe thats why im so screwed up?? idk i know this one girl whos 12 and had sex..and her mom died..i guess when parents die..it just makes some people bad kids.. =[ ; my dad , my sister kayleigh, and me live in a condominium now... ; so good luck telling my mom unless you go up to heaven soon. -i miss you mom- support breast cancer --->
2007-09-05 05:31:12 · update #3
imean.im to young to give head..thats whati meant up there if you didnt get that!!
2007-09-05 05:33:33 · update #4
yes dear you are still a virgin.
until a member penetrates your hole (sorry for the bluntness) you are a virgin.
2007-09-05 04:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by GinGi 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Intercourse is how you lose your virginity(penetration via penis. Even though you have popped your cherry, it doesn't mean you are no loger a virgin. I popped mine with a tampon.
So, you are still a virgin. However, you are too young to be starting your sexual life. wait till the time is right, which is NOT 13. You will enjoy it so much more when you are older. At your age you run the risk of it getting around that you are a slut. And that kind of rep. sticks and can completely ruin your reputation as well as your self esteem. And kind of liking a boy is not a good enough reason to let him go there.
2007-09-05 04:23:58 · answer #2 · answered by Pandora 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i dont think u have broke that piece of skin. even tampons dont all ways brake it.
i lost my virginity when i was 13. sometimes i regretted it and sometimes i did not. i did not get pregnant. and i had a very understanding mother. she took me to the clinic for regular check ups and for the birth control shot and i gat condoms at the clinic for free. i only got one STD but caught it early and got rid of it.
i was very lucky in what is around and the chances of becoming a teen age mom.
if i were u wait, at lest til u r finished with high school, or have some college. of course if u cant be super careful. there are things that u cant get rid of.and most parents are not understanding. if i could do it over again i would have waited. its hard to get a good paying job with just a high school diploma. there are also other ways to be sexually satisfied without intercourse, as u r experiencing
just be very very careful. im 24 and have 3children now i love them dearly, but wished i would have went to college so i can better support my family.
2007-09-05 04:26:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Although your hymen may no longer be intact, you are still considered a virgin until you have sex. You are much too young to be sexually active, not because of your age, but because of the immature attitude you take when discussing sex. I suggest you keep your pants buttoned in the future.
2007-09-05 04:23:58 · answer #4 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are still a virgin - You lose your virgin when you have intercourse (vaginal penetration by the mans penis).
You are WAY to young to be getting fingered. I think I was just experiencing my first kiss at your age.... Just take it easy and enjoy being young - You have your whole life to experience sex and sexual things.
2007-09-05 04:14:52 · answer #5 · answered by Go Bears! 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes youre a virgin.
2007-09-05 04:14:23 · answer #6 · answered by boots6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and you haven't done something wrong so young, you just don't need to be doing that type of stuff. It's not wrong, it's just.... not right for younger kids.
Btw, would Massie Block have done that? [Sorry, had to throw that in... but her character isn't like that..]
2007-09-05 04:39:25 · answer #7 · answered by xxautomatic_pistolxx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
chances r ur still a virgin -- but the main point here is that you are allowing ur body to be penetrated by possilbe infection -- use protection no matter what ur doing with ur friends -- it's ur body -- u make the rules -- make sure they are inforced by anybody wantin to get into u
2007-09-05 04:37:36 · answer #8 · answered by de viking 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Virgin until a male penis goes inside your vagina....Also slow down!NO need to rush things!!Letting you know from experience.
2007-09-05 05:03:26 · answer #9 · answered by only me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a virgin until you have had penetrative sex. So nothing to worry about.
2007-09-05 04:18:09 · answer #10 · answered by wildnmad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋