Why are women bitchy to other women even if they dont know each other personally while...?

Question

men tend to be friendly with other guys?

medolfan: LMAO.. is my q too scientific??

Answer 1

Thats why the female species are called 'bitches'!

Answer 2

I have met a lot of bitchy men, both in Austria and in Italy, although less in Anglosaxon countries.

I think generally women tend to be more emotionally involved into everything they do and they think they can just follow their gut feeling and tall the other women off, just because they feel that way. Men tend to be more detached and don't get involved personally, so what other men do doesn't affect them so much...

On the other hand, a friendship between 2 women can be much more intense and intimate thatn that between 2 men because we tend to open our heart more..

Answer 3

Make that "why are SOME women . . ." Some women feel they are in competition all the time, and they are generally the ones that are obsessive about their weight, clothes, hair, make-up, nails, shoes, etc., etc. If they feel they should be able to lure any man they want into their net, they have a real problem with any woman who is not afraid of having her man stolen. It's apparently an ego thing: acting like they have a big ego to offset feeling inadequate inside.

P.S. Maybe they seem unusually bitchy to you because you are so pretty, you present a challenge.

Answer 4

Mendolfan has a point. Women see other women as rivals so they get bitchy with each other. Men are really only big boys and just want to get out and play.

Answer 5

Because a lot of them think being nasty towards other women (at least in the workplace) makes them look like one of the guys to men. I know several who are only nice to men and treat the women workers like crap.

or can I say crap. Another violation notice coming.

Answer 6

Miho .... Hi! You've already gotten such great answers, so mine is obviously NOT for the ten points. You have, though , touched on a subject that makes me very sad. I have long believed that many women were using too much of their energy being bitchy to each other..... when we should be helping each other. We're all here trying to make the best we can of our lives - and, I'm sure, we all know how it feels to be hurt by other people. You'd think we would show a little compassion for the other women "in the same boat". Can't we all just put away our claws and stop ripping each other apart? We have so much to offer each other in the way of kindness, advice, sympathy and......... oh! the list is too long to continue. And, the men.... WHOA!! I sure do love 'em, but why do we wonder why SOME of them feel so superior to us. Why shouldn't they? Here we are... doing everything in our power to "get" them.... even if it means back-stabbing one of our "sisters". They know they wouldn't do that to a buddy... just to get a "dime a dozen" chick. No wonder they hold themselves in such high regard... as such "precious" commodities. Hell, I'd feel superior, too... if men were trying to knock each other down just to get my attention. Wouldn't you? And, no wonder women have been reduced to "HOs".. If you lose one, there's always another one waiting for a chance to be with you.... ready to fight for you. Why take the trouble being good to a woman. Plenty more where she came from. Right? So, O.K..... a break , please. Before I offend all the men out there... let it be known that, of course, this is a generalization... Not ALL men think that way....I KNOW that! But, let's face it, gentlemen... MANY do. (and you know THAT!) And Ladies....please think! We are actually CAUSING these problems by competing. You can't deny it. We're no longer cave people who depend on men for our very survival. Naturally, it's wonderful to have a great guy to love you. But, being bitchy to each other won't make that happen. It's cheap, and just defeats your purpose. Besides, do you really believe that seducing him away from someone means he loves you? Or that you're better ?Yeah? Just wait. There are more out there just like you. Why can't we see? It's a vicious cycle.... Please, let's cut the bullsh*t. (By the way, Ladies used to end up with Knights. Do bitches?)
So, Miho, instead of answering your question, I took advantage of it to plead with any of my "sisters" who happen to be reading the answers you get. Hope you don't mind.... and thanks for the opportunity. Great question, sweetie. (See, y'all, how easy it is to be nice...)

Answer 7

I am confident with myself, and like who I am ~ so i have no reason to be rude to someone for no reason, especially for the sole reason of being female. I would imagine it comes down to a jealousy thing -- for many women it's easier to be nicer to a woman who they might consider less attractive. Albeit I am not of the lesbian-persuasion, i can appriciate a gorgeous woman, and leave it at that. There is no point in having bad attitude over silly things.

Answer 8

I think it goes back to our animal instincts and urges. Female animals look for quality instead of quantity when choosing a partner to mate with. And, since the quality of the potential partners is usually quite low, there are only a handful of mate-worthy specimens out there for all the females to compete for.

Every other female is a potential rival so women feel they have to make the other females look bad in order for them to look good.

Males subscribe to the philosophy of quantity over quality: "If I spread my seed throughout the entire community, I'm bound to produce a few quality offspring." Since there is no real advantage for one particular female over another, the males of the species don't feel the need to compete for the affections of the few choice females.

At least that's what happens in the Animal Kingdom...

Answer 9

All the time
Have some beer amidst the guys and best friends they are even when they're strangers. The only friendly women i met are the church goers.

Answer 10

Maybe you have met the wrong people, dear.

Men and women an be either bitchy or angels, as well...
To the same degree

Answer 11

maybe that time of the month? I guess women with PERIODS clash hormones end up in EXCLAMATION POINT. Men end up with a big QUESTION MARK, starts to get friendly and share frustrations......but this is just me.....