Do I have hormonal imbalance since i have a very short or no orgasm. This is causing problems is my relationship. Who do i see what medication can i take? Please help i am desperate.
2007-09-05 04:03:16 · 6 answers · asked by bella 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
It's not hormones or medication you need, it's practice.
Lots of women do not reach orgasm from vaginal sex. It's no reflection on your partner that his "work" is not bringing you to orgasm. But when he's finished, or before he begins, the actual intercourse, he should learn how to bring you to your own climax through clitoral stimulation and whatever else you require.
You can't teach him what you need unless you know what that is. A woman who can achieve orgasm by herself learns what she likes, and when, and how. So make a point of setting aside private time for yourself. Enjoy a glass of wine and consider adding a sexual toy, especially a vibrator (which you don't have to insert if you don't want to).
If you can buzz yourself to orgasm, you're teaching your body to respond appropriately to stimuli. The more orgasms you can give yourself, through multiple means, the more you learn what it takes to reach a climax.
What's really amazing is that the brain seems to create pathways that lead more reliably to orgasm during sex if it knows how to get there through solo play. If you reach orgasm alone fairly often, the likelihood of you having orgasms during foreplay or even during intercourse itself are greatly improved.
2007-09-05 04:14:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
not being a doctor I do not think the hormone thing is ur problem -- and since u did not "go into detail" .. it could be that (1) ur partner (s) do not know how to turn u on, (2) u might be a person that needs special (who knows right) "things" to get them going in the right direction -- and it might just be that ur up tight and not really sure of ur own body -- I would experiment with "other things" -- and make sure u tell ur partner (s) ur wants and dislikes -- keep trying, it'll come (no pun intended). ---- just remember to use protection.
2007-09-05 04:42:06 · answer #2 · answered by de viking 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only about 25% of women have an orgasm during the actual act of intercourse. Most women need extra stimulation either manual or electric. Have you tried that?
2007-09-05 04:07:39 · answer #3 · answered by LIGirl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-27 18:26:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no hormonal imbalance
no medicine will help
shorter or no orgasm
shorter means you are getting.
good relation,relaxation, taking your self to real
understanding of sex ,openness,dirty chat or thinking
clit or other g spot stimulation etc will help you to get good orgasm.
you are perfect woman and you have to just relax and enjoy life -you will get perfect orgasm
ok
2007-09-05 04:08:45 · answer #5 · answered by yogeshdave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
discuss this with your doc... a friend of mine had the same thing going on and when she finally said something, her gyno told her that her clitoral hood was very thick and that if she had it removed it would change her life... and wow, did it!!... she's a happy gal these days.... this is a 'last resort' kind of thing, but if you know that you had something like this, you could make allowances for it in your love life.....
2007-09-05 04:33:11 · answer #6 · answered by meanolmaw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋