Why do girls like guys.?When I go out,I normally see guys staring at me. Why cant girls stare at me? I stare at girls but they think its wierd. Okay, so I went out today... And there were like tons of guys staring at me. And i felt sick cuz its rude to stare. Why cant women stare at me?At least 1 woman...What if the whole world was upside down? What if guys went out with guys? What if girls went out with girls. What if the guy and girl thing didn't exist. What if all people went out with their own sex/gender? Okay,so what would happen. Would guys stop staring at me? how can i make them stop?
2007-09-05 03:17:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I just heard this recently...pull over at the next rest area and we will talk...I will stare at you Tina...go to where gals hang only..thats easy
2007-09-05 03:27:49 · answer #1 · answered by ღOMGღ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it can be frustrating when it seems that you are the only one who is attracted to people of your own sex. Believe me, I have to put up with that every day. And I can also understand that having people stare at you when you don't want them to can feel kind of weird as well. It's the sort of thing that you can't really do much about, so it's best not to let it get you down too much. Take it as a compliment when guys stare at you, it generally means they find you attractive. I know that might not be what you want, but it's better than nothing right? If it really bothers you, then my advice would be to try not to make eye contact, and if that doesn't work, frown at them, that will discourage them. It will mark you out as a little antisocial though, so you have to think what's more important. As for girls not looking at you, I have to say, you are in the minority. Only around 10% of the population is LGBT, so it will often feel like you're the only one. Don't be discouraged though, there are more than you might think, and you begin to see more and more as you get older.
As for your other question, if everyone was attracted exclusively to people of their own gender, there would be no way for people to reproduce, and the human race would die out. I'm not saying everyone should be straight to keep the species alive, but we do need a balance of gay and straight. I think that as time goes on, people will become more open-minded about homosexuality and there will be more openly gay people, but I don't think that heterosexuality will die out, because if it did, our species would die out as well.
2007-09-05 10:52:29 · answer #2 · answered by Iggy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably the way you present yourself--I'm not saying it's your fault, but guys are attracted to certain types of girls and you probably fit one of those types. If you want girls to stare, changing your image is one option, though probably not the best. Otherwise if you're staring at girls, someone ought to eventually get the hint and stare back... :)
2007-09-05 10:24:31 · answer #3 · answered by Aura 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
take it as a compliment that so many people find you attractive. maybe you don't live in an area where other gays are comfortable staring/flirting/ whatever
if anything, it's just frustrating to have people of the opposite sex check you out when it seems that people of the same sex aren't.
2007-09-05 10:24:22 · answer #4 · answered by Brian S 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You sound pretty young and childish. Hopefully you will grow up someday and mature nicely and meat up with some handsome boy or man. Nature will take its course.
2007-09-05 13:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if all that happens, then the human race would end. Man likes woman, gets married, have kids. Woman likes woman, end of human race. Do you get it now?
2007-09-05 10:24:37 · answer #6 · answered by islandgirl God and family 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋
You don't understand that you are in the minority. The vast majority is heterosexual. Males prefer to be with females for the most part. Accept it.
2007-09-05 10:21:41 · answer #7 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 6⤋
Maybe they don't know that you are gay.
2007-09-05 10:25:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋