Can such concealment cause harm to mind of spouse & amount cheating in India????see details.?

Question

IF some men / women before marriage conceal or tell lie about :
stretch marks because of obesity on skin under cloths,
other small scar marks of burn or injury on skin under cloths,
premarital affairs…..to their would be spouse ;
which after marriage can dislike and loose interest in sex because of odd looking stretch & scar marks or
can loose affectionate feeling after knowing about their premarital affairs,
will that amount to DAMAGE or HARM TO MIND of spouse???
Can such people be sent to JAIL under the charges of CHEATING in India for concealing such facts & telling lie???

Answer 1

No legal trouble for you if you are seeking clarifications about the legal position of certain facts & implications thereto. Let me first make the difference between the civil & criminal judicial process & procedures, in case of any civil suit the evidence produced to prove any issue may not be of such a strict nature which one requires to prove any charge in a criminal complaint. The civil matter can be decided on the basis of evidence that may show in all probability the happening of the event or any act that has been made as one of the issue in such suit, but in criminal complaint the evidence should be of such a nature that it proves the actual happening of the event or act that proves the accused guilty of the offence complained off. Now in your previous question the same facts were in relation to a civil matter where I told you the chances for them getting a suitable judgment for dissolution of marriage on the basis of these facts have diminished chances, now how can you think about a criminal complaint on the basis of those very fact, where the presence of strict evidence to prove the event or act beyond any reasonable doubts is the first & foremost important along with the complete circumstances of the case leading to the questioned offence just pointing towards only one direction i.e. the accused. Sorry, these facts in no way can help any one get the other person charged with the offence of cheating under the provisions of the Indian Penal Code & get such a person punished for the same.

Answer 2

I completely agree with FOA's answer. You may feel cheated but getting a divorce on the basis of past relationships, which I hope are done and dealt with, is definitely not advisable. Scars and strech marks can put you off, I agree, but then this is where as a spouse you step up and take that vow, which you took while marrying, seriously.
You agreed to spend your life with your spouse come what may, so don't be shallow but act responsibly and find something to love in your spouse, after all you are married now.

Answer 3

leagally they cant but yes if some one have such type of things in the body either because of shyness she might not have told u or she did not think it as a big problem as the body is always covered and such things are opened only in the bed rooms in the presence of husbands.U cant say its a cheating as man also do the same things many a times hiding their drinking and smoking habbits and when it comes out say sorry and nothing else.So man should not make it a big deal and adjust accordingly if he is married now.

Answer 4

First I have to ask myself a few questions before I can elaborate. "Do I think" opens up the vagueness of this question immediately. Let's see, do I think, I mean really think about things? Who are "others" to me? What do I think is "easy"? If at all what do I consider the point at which someone is "reading my mind?" Most importantly, I must decide what the person asking this question is trying to get out of it. The question is being asked under the assumption that reading the mind can be done. I am going to then say that it can be done using a variety of tactics. None of these tactics involve specifically reading a persons mind. Body language, nervousness, the eyes, etc.. all play a roll in reading a mind. To read a mind, takes two people. Always involving a person that is trying to read a mind. Plus, a person that may want their mind read, like a hungry baby; or a person may not want their mind read; like a poker player. For reading my mind to be easy, I must make it easy for my mind to be read. Think of this like a game of poker. Professional players are professionals at reading minds, but they are also professionals at preventing their minds from being read. With all that in consideration, I think that MY mind, for the most part is easy for competent others to read if I am caught by surprise. If I don't want my mind read, it is much more difficult for others to read. Great question, very popular ;-]

Answer 5

Quick Reply: No, she can't go to jail for that but you CAN get an annulment of your marriage only if you can prove that she was unfaithful after you married.

Sounds to me like you are tired of your wife and are ready to dump her. It has nothing to do with her past. What matters is how much she loves you now. Her past is gone. You may never find someone that loves you like she does.

Long Reply:
It depends on what you believe in. I had a previous marriage and 2 children when I met my current spouse. I told him about my 3 relationships ever since I divorced my ex-husband 6 years ago. I divorced because he was abusive and unloving. Talking to my current husband straight forward basically backfired, he is very untrusting, very insecure and very upset about my past relationships and now he says "you didn't have to tell me, it would have been better of for me not to know" but I am a very straight foward person in nature. I dont like to hide things, he did not like the fact that I had relations with 3 men BEFORE I met him. I told him right away when we met; BEFORE he and I had a relationship. Three years later, now we are married and have one child. But he treats me really trashy. Even though I am faithful, and I was never unfaithful to him, to my previous husband or the men I dated.

And the relationships where not one after another either, it was 2 months, 5 months, 4 months thorughout 6 years, and plenty of time in between. I dont consider this a bad thing in America but maybe in India its pretty bad.

But for Americans I think they dont want to know. So that could be a reason why some people hide it?

Anyway my husband also had a very trashy life before he met me, he did a lot of things he shouldn't have done which I never used in my defense until lately.

We are about to break up. I think that if I had not told him about my past life, we would be much happier and he would trust me more, he is not the type who appreciates honesty.

But I am.

So it is up to you to talk to her and tell her you want her to be honest and straightforward before you marry, if that is what you want to hear. If she tells you about her past and its too much for you to handle, either brake up... or acknowledge that she was honest and straight forward with you and it takes someone who LOVES you to do that. Its not easy. Whoever does that takes a chance at being dumped.

hope I help.

Answer 6

There is no way you can send your wife to jail on what you have stated, drop this foolish idea before you get yourself into serious legal trouble.

You can try your luck and plead mental cruelty as ground for divorce stating your wife cheated you by concealing injuries on her body, if you succeed be sure to let all of us know on Yahoo answers as it will be a precedent.

Answer 7

Men who think they own you before they even know you make me sick.
So you don't like stretch marks and scars. Maybe you should marry a Barbie doll instead of a real woman.
If I was your wife, I would divorce you so fast it would make your head spin.
You are the cruel one.

Answer 8

Yes of course. But it has to be proved by the complaintant that accused had not revealed everything

Answer 9

ooh...well for me...i want an honest wife...but regarding legal advices..you should ask Baker & McKenzie.

http://www.bakernet.com/BakerNet/default.htm

Answer 10

marriages are solemonised in heaven with no conditionalities.