I was mollested and told my boyfriend after 2 mounths He wanta to break up wit me and i dont know what to do to get him back. I was Mollested 2 mounth in to relationship
2007-09-04 23:53:38 · 18 answers · asked by Kia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He isn't worth it honey.
2007-09-04 23:57:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't need him,you need someone who will support you through a very difficult time in your life,hopefully you have reported the so and so who mollested you,if not you need to tell someone ASAP.Not only will you be helping yourself you will be stopping this brute from mollesting someone else.Good luck in the future.
2007-09-05 07:02:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gather that the boyfriend was not the one doing the molesting, right?
If he REALLY loves you , he would not want to break up, especially since this kind of 'event' makes you need even more support.
I would seriously reconsider wanting this insensitive ***** back. You deserve better than a guy who runs of at the hint of trouble.
So, take a deep breath, if you need help dealing with being molested - get it (doctor, parents etc.) and then move on. Find someone who actually loves you.
Best of luck.
2007-09-05 07:12:41 · answer #3 · answered by U_S_S_Enterprise 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He Isn't Worth It.... Trust Me. I Was Molested Also And When I Told My Boyfriend He Stuck By Me And Told Me That He Didn't Care Because He Loved Me And Would Help Me The Best Way He Knew How. Trust Me, You Do Not Want Him... He Isn't Worthy Or Deserving of You.
2007-09-05 07:01:28 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Ello♥Vee♥E♥ says Shut Up, Take Notes 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If it was your boyfriend that mollested you then my advice to you is to MOVE ON. Your question is not really clear so I'm assuming it is your boyfriend and if it is, any man like that is clearly not worthy.
2007-09-05 06:59:00 · answer #5 · answered by Papooselet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he wans to break up with you over something like that, then he is as not the guy for you, it's time move on, he really could not care for you and he is definately notbe worth your time. That happened to my sister and I am truly so sorry that you had to go thru that, but if my sisters boyfriend did that to her, I would have personally beat his *** for not having a heart! Keep your head up!
2007-09-09 00:17:25 · answer #6 · answered by Boo Boo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he molest you or were you molested by someone else??
When you were in your relationship already, were you molested??
I am so sorry for you! My prayers go out to you!
If he wants to break up with you, you do not need him, dump him, get counseling, and take the first step in dealing with this, that would be ending the relationship you are in, and getting counseling.
You need to take care of yourself! You need help, and you do not need this man!!
2007-09-05 07:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you go to your parents? the police? Child Protective Services? I certainly hope you did all of the above!! Send the boyfriend packing and find one who will support you. You're the victim, not the felon!!
2007-09-05 07:01:23 · answer #8 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he want break in your relationship then don't think about him because he don't love you and you can't change anybodies mind or heart. So try to find a good and sincere partner for yourself instead of finding him back
2007-09-05 06:59:40 · answer #9 · answered by MEENA M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get him go!, if he can't be supportive in the long run this never would have worked out!
Tell me about it, I'll be here to listen, and give you support 100%. I'd NEVER leave you over this. He needs to grow up
2007-09-05 06:58:57 · answer #10 · answered by NARSTEVEN 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him ..he is not just worth it if wants to leave you over this issue... good that we came to know that he is that type of person..
Forget forgive and move on...
If you don then you are allowing him to hurt more
2007-09-05 07:05:08 · answer #11 · answered by Ash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋