i hate my life and i hate myself. i keep getting bashed and shoved. i have no friends. people never try to understand me. why?
2007-09-04 22:14:04 · 5 answers · asked by ethandallas90 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
How do you expect from people to understand you if you cant understand and love yourself?Happiness is everywhere, in the simple moments of our days and you refuse to see this. I think that stress is a possible reason why you feel "bashed and shoved".Its a difficult phase you are going through and you 'd better start facing your fears,stress and your low self esteem.Pick a hobbie,a sport,treat yourself well and let you breathe.You will feel better and more relieved,and stronger at the same time.Then you will realize that other people do understand you.Its all about good mood and willing i think...
2007-09-04 23:24:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm much like you in the sense that I am a negative person. Whenever I have feelings like this I think about what someone once told me.
They said, "If you choose to be negative you are allowing negativity to follow you. If you let negativity follow you, bad things are likely to happen and you will continue to be an unhappy person."
So doesn't it make sense to try to think positive? It might seem hard but a good start is to determine what it is that you don't like about yourself and change it. Make a list.
What happens when you are getting bashed and shoved? Think about anything you may be doing to allow others to do this and either block those people out or speak up for yourself. They will eventually get the hint.
You have no friends? Then you must learn to be more sociable. If you shy, take it one step at a time.
People never try to understand you? Maybe its the way your communicating with them. Or maybe you are just trying to talk to the wrong type of people.
Take some time out and really consider and think these situations through. Know what you can do to change them.
2007-09-05 06:43:42 · answer #2 · answered by Nettie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good things happen to you all the time, you just don't recognize them. When in the Army in Korea I was so cold that sometimes I think how wonderful it is to have a warm bed & be dry. Having food for my children is also a wonderful feeling... just looking at a sunset & listening to birds sing without someone trying to kill me is a wonderful feeling. The best thing you can do is to try to understand other people... they, like you, have problems & are angered about things they feel powerless to control.
I think you are a teenager... for some reason life is hell at that age & I think most, if not all, must fight through that period of anger & depression.
2007-09-05 06:52:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When people are not understanding you, then why don't you try to understand the people. You see have you ever read the autobiography of "Abraham Lincoln", if not read his story. After 40 years he became president of america upto then he faced so many problems and struggled a lot. We are humans, we are hear to fight with situations.
Don't think problem as a problem, think it as a Puzzle and try to find out the solution for that then you can solve it. if not take help.
If you are thinking that you dont have friends, make me as your friend, you can share anything with me and you can ask anything. I will try to understand you. Ok. all the best
2007-09-05 05:31:51 · answer #4 · answered by warmguy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try focusing on helping others it will "get you out of your head".....see what you can add to the mainstream of life
and & positive people will gravitate towards you.
Don't wear a mask...being what others want you to be....
Be yourself!
2007-09-05 05:27:10 · answer #5 · answered by The Saint 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋