I'm 24 years old and have been with my boyfriend (31) for about 6 months. Recently I found out he's a virgin.T
A virgin! At 31! Isn't that crazy?? I'm having a hard time dealing with it to be honest.I asked him why and he's like the opportunity didnt present itself.But i think he's a little reserved .I have to get him to do the deed.But i dont wanna freak him out either and ive had a bad experience earlier on with another guy.Any suggestions how i can get in the mood?Any help will be appreciated.
2007-09-04 21:23:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Any ideas to get him in the mood?Coz i dont wanna screw up like the last guy.
2007-09-04 21:32:40 · update #1
realise how important it is to you and him. take it easy and no matter what presents itself,.... don't laugh!
good luck
2007-09-04 21:29:57 · answer #1 · answered by senoredgy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ooh it sounds kinda bad but id find that odd too, in fact a guy i was with a few yrs ago was a virgin til 26 and that bothered me although i know it shudnt, i cudnt help it and kept thinking y? he wasnt shy or reserved i just cudnt work it out, the relationship ended but not for that reason, i just found it hard to accept so im with u on that one, sorry not been much help!
2007-09-05 04:29:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why dont you wait til you marry him. Then there will be no worries about what to expect or who should make the 1st move.
2007-09-08 23:40:12 · answer #3 · answered by DawnanawnaBB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are really lucky. Just go slow on him. Show him some porno movies. That should get him in mood.
2007-09-05 04:52:24 · answer #4 · answered by Meeto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him to do whatever you want him to! this is your perfect oppurtunity to teach him how you like to be touched and you have complete power over everything he does.
just take his hand and move it over your body wherever you want it and tell him what to do, then let him develop his own style.
your a very lucky woman!
2007-09-05 05:10:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want to do it with you right now do not pressure him.
Wait until he is ready.
If you are not willing to wait until he is ready, then you need to figure out if you love him enough to wait until he is ready or if you need to find someone else to fulfill your needs.
2007-09-05 11:30:14 · answer #6 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first check if he has a pennis...if he has...than check if it gets erect....
i bet one thing is missing from the above two. i feel pity..... not for him ..but for you.
omg...wats happening to the world.
2007-09-05 06:22:57 · answer #7 · answered by cavexxxman 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just come on to him, when he is comfortable, he will be the one coming on to you.
2007-09-05 04:49:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously, is he gay?
2007-09-05 04:33:57 · answer #9 · answered by Meg 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋