I'm having a dilemma right now. Well I'm going to be living with someone for 6 mos. We're not friends and barely even know each other. The reason for this is that we're both on a very tight budget and decided to share a room together. But now there's this bed problem. The room has a queen sized bed and we were planning to put another single bed inside the room. The owner doesn't want to replace it with two separate beds so we decided to put another bed (my roomie doesn't want a mattress alone so it's gotta be an entire single bed). Right now I can see that it's gonna take up too much space inside the room. So you can just imagine. Can someone pls enlighten me on this? Thanks! We're both female btw.
2007-09-04 20:30:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I'm a bit of an 'oldie' here, and I can tell you that years ago no-one batted an eyelid at same-sex sharing of beds.
In those days it was a necessity anyway.
As long as your room-mate is happy to share without any hang-ups go for it. Sisters share, be like sisters with each other and respect each other, no harm done and your morals are still intact.
Good luck.
2007-09-04 20:43:34 · answer #1 · answered by Peter M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't make a fuss over a non issue,Heavens are not going to fall if two women share a huge bed.You can put some pillows in between or one of you could sleep on a sofa alternatively.All your apprehensions would turn out to be laughable after wards.
2007-09-05 03:40:36 · answer #2 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get 2 of the body pillows Put them down the center of the bed from top to bottom. U sleep on one side she sleeps on the other. No contact. U could even have your own blankets so no one hogs the covers.
2007-09-05 03:39:11 · answer #3 · answered by bhappy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's alright but it's a bit of a pain. I mean it will be really annoying to be sharing a bed with someone for 6 months but if you think you can do it then good luck.
2007-09-05 03:38:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i say share a queen size bed OR you could get a futon that way it could be a couch when you needed it to be. i have shared plenty of beds with friends and as long as one or both of you aren't bed hogs it should work out fine.
2007-09-05 03:40:04 · answer #5 · answered by somebody's a mom!! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you all will be ok to sleep in the same bed. at first it will be awkward but once you get to know each other it wont be.
As long as she doesnt kick!
2007-09-05 03:49:55 · answer #6 · answered by ellie may 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
suck it up. it's the way it has to be. set the rules beforehand so there are no misunderstandings. i don't mean it to be sexual but i mean with regard to bed time, laundry, sleep styles, snoring, etc.
2007-09-05 03:39:13 · answer #7 · answered by ohn_99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to explore your feminine curiosities!
2007-09-05 03:37:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Humm...I fell ur spirit...nah i dont actually but dis is ok
2007-09-05 03:36:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead- nothing will happen if you dont want it to
2007-09-05 03:47:01 · answer #10 · answered by sassy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋