I am 19 and hate physical contact other then boxing, which I love and am damn good at. I have not probably hugged some one since about 8th grade when a girl hugged me which was uncomfortable for me. Since then I have not had any physical contact with anyone other then knocking people out in the ring. I just dont like to be touched, so stay out of my invisible bubble. I dont understand why people cant get that I just dont like any physical affection what so ever, never kissed a girl or anything cuz I just dont like all that touchy feely crap. I am built like crazy and girls always want to touch my six pack, but when I dont let them they get the impression that I am gay or something, no just dont like to be touched. By the way I cant stand the thought of gay people so ya not gay. Why cant people get this and why do they think I am gay???????? I am not gay and dont have a problem so quit with that not my question.
2007-09-04 20:03:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I wish I had married someone like you. I absolutely hate sex. Never get married unless you can find someone who doesn't like to be touched either.
2007-09-05 16:57:29 · answer #1 · answered by aeidensmommy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'd say he definitely wants to have sex with you. Grabbing your breasts and butt while making out is a very reliable sign. Whether he wants an actual relationship or just a hookup, that I can't tell you. If you want to find out, hold out for a couple months. If he looses interest, he just wanted sex.
2016-04-03 04:21:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing comes to mind reading your question..
Were you hugged, and kissed as a child?
I think people who are brought up in a loving family grow up to be loving people themselves and ways to show that love is to hug and kiss...
I grew up in a very big family and we are all huggers..
I think right now you are concentrating on your boxing and that is fine.. but I do think if you ever find someone you are interested in.. she will expect you to hug/kiss her etc..
If you let yourself relax, and feel love for someone, it should come naturally, if not please get to the bottom of this.. or else you might be a very lonely man in the future...
Most woman, not all but most love to feel a man's arms around them. Love to hug, cuddle and kiss.. and yep even have sex..
And one day you might have children of your own.. they will need your love... think about that!!
I really do hope you get over this as you are missing out on so much.. GoodLuck!!
2007-09-04 20:27:05 · answer #3 · answered by Rebel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People don't understand this because virtually everyone on Earth likes to be touched. The people who don't like it usually don't like it for very specific reasons e.g. they were molested as children.
The thrill of fighting, and winning, is unbelievable. I'm not saying the joy of human contact is better, but it's different. And you may be missing out on a very large and pleasurable side of human experience.
2007-09-04 20:18:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
there are people like you and its not unusual you just have not run across them its not being in your space. someday you will run into the right girl and it will change for you but until then you just do your thing. i understand it and sometimes the nurturing you didn't get as a child also could be par tof this but its ok to be yourself.
2007-09-08 16:57:30 · answer #5 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, you just have a pure heart. save your feeling and they'll mean something for someone worthwhile who doesn't care about that. don't waste your purity on just anyone. wait until you find someone that you give that to that you will eventually marry someday. you're not gay. you're just someone with innocence in a very perverse world, find some like yourself.
2007-09-04 20:24:21 · answer #6 · answered by Euclid 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I understand how you felt...It's anxiety things...Maybe physical touching makes you anxious and nervous...maybe you had bad experiences in physical touching in your childhood as well....
2007-09-04 20:25:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
it may be a sign of impotence. if u dont get erections, it means you have no sex drive in urself. thats why u dont like physical touch. if u get erections, u may be sexually normal. in this case, c a psychiatarist.
2007-09-04 21:42:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
hi there,
here is my answer, you just dont feel like it or in other point you just dont really like the physical contact.Dude, it happen to me before.It just you dont ready to face it yet.
It took a while..believe me it will.
2007-09-04 20:20:42 · answer #9 · answered by selena_sabrina 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is really good..you should do all those thing after you get married!!!!!
2007-09-04 20:11:20 · answer #10 · answered by lolo 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋