i am boy studing in 9th std but mom and dad are fighting i am able to study.how to handle
2007-09-04 19:41:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Some parents ignore that their frequent quarrel cause lot of disturbances to their children.
First tell them that it disturbs u a lot.
Second, talk to the person whom u r close (mom or dad) about the quarrel and ask them to be calm as nearby homes too will degrade the family's value.
Third, when they quarrel just switch on tv or music system and keep it alound so that they understand that they are doing nonsense.
Fourth, Get out the home when the quarrel begins and go to ur friend's home for study.
Fifth, try ur own ideas to work to avoid the quarrel.
Sixth, when nothing works just ignore their quarrel and continue with ur work!!!
2007-09-05 01:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by Shinoj Kumar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even my parents fought a lot and I used to find it hard to concentrate, till they got divorced. Which seems the same really, lol, but a bit better. Now I dont care if you go out and tell them my story.. that they split and so will yours x)
After all.. you dent a treeplant and it weakens.. strengths are drained, till finally, one day in the rain it Falls.
Also, just explain to them that you are really finding it hard to study and it's important that you have what you need, a nice place to study with fight-free. Maybe get some consuling for them too, if they dont shut up. Or, tell them to shut it.. with an F.
now that'll keep them quiet x)
2007-09-04 19:53:58 · answer #2 · answered by Mimí..ツ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to take it outside. They might not know that you can hear them fighting, if you told them you can, maybe they would turn it down a bit. Also, you could sit them down and say 'I know your problems are none of my business, but your behavior is having a negative effect on me, I am unable to study, and I am emotionally distressed by your behavior. Please can you work it out, or talk rather than yell and shout?'
You may even find that they become ashamed of their behavior, and go to counselling or work it out quicker.
2007-09-04 19:50:35 · answer #3 · answered by A derka der 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every morning at 5:30 A.M switch on TV and watch Astha channel. You do Paranayama, do may follow you.
2007-09-04 20:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by sagarukin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact an old cleric or real principled social worker nearby in your neighbourhood & tell him the problem. Ask him to resolve coolly & do not disclose to others.
2007-09-04 19:51:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-09-04 19:52:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All parents fight. Just try to ignore it and concentrate on your own life. If your grades are bad, just tell them that if they had not been arguing, you would have been able to concentrate on your studies.
2007-09-04 19:48:09 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same prob at the same age. Get them a good doctor 4 marital counselling
2007-09-05 00:36:24 · answer #8 · answered by Atieno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them to shut up!! okay maybe not, talk to them. tell them that you love them but the fighting is affecting you too, with school and other things. parents are human too and times we don't realize what we are doing either. talking is the best thing to do..
2007-09-04 19:50:47 · answer #9 · answered by mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure your parents really care about you? am i right? well if they fight a lot tell them you don't like it and that it is affecting you. and maybe they'll stop
2007-09-04 19:47:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋