Or if that someone committed a mistake and told you it's because he/she is bipolar they just can't control themselves..will that be a worthy reason or excuse?
2007-09-04 19:32:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
bipolar disorder
NOUN:
A psychiatric disorder marked by alternating episodes of mania and depression. Also called bipolar illness , manic-depressive illness .
You have to assess how much you feel for the person. You also need to know how serious a condition he has. But ultimately, you have to visualize how this disorder and consequently, the mistakes, has affected your relationship in the past and also, how it will affect both of you presently and in the future.
Good luck to you and use both your head and mind in making the best decision for the both of you!
2007-09-04 20:16:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People with bipolar disorder can learn to control themselves with the right combinations of medication(s) and psychotherapy.
I would stay with the person if and only if I saw that that person was committed to dealing with and managing his or her disorder. I can't make my partner better and if he or she is not willing to do the work to get better then I can't expect him or her to be there for me or even let me help in whatever way I can.
Relationships are about supporting each other and helping each other but we all need to be able to support and help ourselves on our own, first. It's much harder for those with psychological disorders but it will do no one any good to use such disorders as excuses and justifications.
Bipolar disorder does not affect a person's ability to judge right from wrong. It does not make a person unable to understand the consequences of their actions. A bipolar person may be more likely to make a mistake in a depressive episode because their view is skewed to an incredibly depressed level or, in a manic state, because they are acting a little more quickly than they think. That said they can still tell obvious things that are right and wrong. Bipolar disorder, for example, will not make someone kill another. No matter how manic or depressed they will still be fully aware of the rightness or wrongness of the situation.
It's hard to know when to stay with a person with a disorder and when to leave. Their disorder will affect you but when you find yourself sacrificing more than feels right, when you feel you are trying to help the other and he or she is not trying to help him or herself, it's probably a good time to get out.
Protecting your own mental health does not make you a bad person in any way. But only you can decide if it is time for you to stay or leave.
2007-09-05 02:59:17 · answer #2 · answered by ophelliaz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most definitely yes. Bipolars are the most loving, sensitive people in the world. They possess a depth of feeling that 'normal' people do not have.
Sometimes, mistakes are made by a bipolar. It is not an excuse - it is the truth.
But, I must emphasize, with the proper medication, a bipolar can remain stable, not make stupid mistakes, and still retain his/her sensitivity and boundless ability for love.
Stay with this person, is what I suggest.
2007-09-05 03:00:26 · answer #3 · answered by Marguerite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to think NO, but personality disorders are becoming all the rage lately...would you rather be right all the time or alone? Its proven in countries in orphanages the kids who were not held because of how little care they recieved were failing to thrive...I would say for the survival of the soul we need love, and each other, so I think that as long as the individual is doing everything in thier power to manage thier issues then its OK to keep our diamond in the rough. Take Care.-Rachel.
2007-09-05 02:45:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure meds and therapy can help.
Excuse, just like when alcoholics claim they did it only because they were drunk. Just because someone is bipolar doesn't mean they're allowed a get-out-of-jail free card..
2007-09-05 02:42:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide if it's you can make a life with this person, based on their behaviors and prognosis, and your own ability to manage.
Just because it's not their fault, doesn't mean they are a good partner.
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2007-09-05 02:41:16 · answer #6 · answered by Kacky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember ones sickness becomes yours after a period of time being around them. Personally I would stay away.
2007-09-05 02:41:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as they're working on it, you have to focus on your feelings. If you love them still, try and work it out. If it drives you insane, you may want to move on.
There is no simple answer here. You have to go with your heart.
2007-09-05 02:40:40 · answer #8 · answered by Bellicosa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋