I know we are not meant to be together. But everytime, we're together, we just can't help but do it. It should stop! He is getting married! What should I do to let him know, we should stop being intimate to each other?
2007-09-04 19:32:10 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why is he getting married if he doesn't love her? Either he loves her and is USING you, or he loves you and is trapped into a marriage.
2007-09-04 19:40:11 · answer #1 · answered by A derka der 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him its over and MEAN IT. Stay away from him completely. His soon to be wife don't deserve this and neither do you. You need to take a long real look at the kind of guy he is. Leave him alone and find a guy that can make a commitment if thats what you're looking for and be happy. This guy sounds like a real jerk and he's using you cause you letting him. Stand up for yourself and put him in his place.
2007-09-08 19:13:01 · answer #2 · answered by celinallll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. If its wrong, cut it off. All it takes is strength of character. If you're both not managing to stop the intimacy, that mean that you have to be the stronger person and have the will to stop it even though he will still want you.
Set down a set of rules, then stick to them, whether he makes it easy or not.
Also try not to allow situations where might get frisky arise. If you do, you will do it again and again and end where you started.
2007-09-04 19:38:48 · answer #3 · answered by Troy W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is getting married, you need to just stop seeing him all together. That will take care of the problem all together.
2007-09-04 20:40:13 · answer #4 · answered by You can do it!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get it in your head first that it is too stop, then tell him. He is taken sweetie, put all your energy into someone who will be with you. If your found out it could ruin his chances of getting married then he may hate you for that ??? Better to end this as mature adult friends hey xx
2007-09-04 19:39:44 · answer #5 · answered by Star Bright 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that. Tell him to stop calling you, stop emailing you etc or you will tell his wife to be. I finally had to, though he was my ex husband of over 10 years and we have a child together. I now only communicate with him via email and messenger, no phone calls. It became too easy for me to fall for his 'just come see me, I won't try anything' lines. I went to see him twice, and fooled around with him twice. Once he got remarried I had to threaten telling his wife to get him to stop, but it worked.
2007-09-04 19:39:35 · answer #6 · answered by navy_brat913 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if he wasn't getting married, I'll say HAVE FUN !!! but thats not the issue here....stop it..now... :P The easiest way is to stop seeing him. There's no other way because no matter what you tell him..he will keep cheating on his girl with you.....why would he want to get married anyways if he's already cheating on her....sorry, i know it hurts to know he's getting married too.
2007-09-04 19:39:22 · answer #7 · answered by lvchic_702 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The guy is a bum.
You'll probably get pregnant.
Then he'll stop seeing you. One problem is solved, but do you know how many more problems you'll have?
2007-09-04 19:55:57 · answer #8 · answered by shortnthick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that it is over, and that you do not want him to contact you any longer. Then avoid him. If he is getting married, he is just using you for sex anyway. Why would you want to be used like that? You deserve better.
2007-09-04 19:38:39 · answer #9 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know what to do, and still you can't?
Messing up three lives! get a hold of yourself! Guys always get into those things, so its upto you!
2007-09-04 19:39:38 · answer #10 · answered by Ev!lOnE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋