I am confused of what i feel right now towards my husband. Whenever he's saying he loves me, i tend to doubt it. I'm not sure if its just my pregnancy thats causing me all these emotions. Lately, I am starting to get suspicious of his textings, YM's, and other.
2007-09-04 19:11:17 · 20 answers · asked by shadys_wife 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't worry too much...
Your husband will love u forever...
Just trust ur husband...
At future u will get ur baby soon...
So, love ur husband and he will love u more back...
Cheers...
2007-09-04 19:15:13 · answer #1 · answered by WindWalker 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-09 01:07:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is only natural for us to become clingy when there is a big change going on (let alone the issues raised by all those hormones!!!). I remember when I got married, I needed constant reassurance from my husband for the whole first week.
You are pregnant, you are 'nesting' and making sure the man will be there to provide and protect is all.
Talk to him about how you feel. Say 'I know it seems irrational, but it's just what I need right now. Please spend more time with me, and tell me what your text's are about. I trust you, but I have all these hormones, and I need more reassurance than usual.'
I think it's only natural that you would be scared that he might abandon you when you are carrying his child, as you need him now more than ever. Just be completely honest with him about how you are feeling and what you need, otherwise you will end up accusing him of cheating or something silly like that, and he might leave you then.
2007-09-04 19:28:59 · answer #3 · answered by A derka der 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are probably feeling insecure and unattractive due to your pregnancy. This is normal. You are probably anxious because you know you need him more than ever to take care of you and your baby. Being pregnant can make some women feel very vulnerable.
However if you are not trusting him, ask yourself why?
Ask him to see his phone. In a trusting and loving relationship, there is no need to have secrets from one another. Maybe it will dispell your fears if you know he is totally open with his phone and internet accounts. Blame it on pregnancy making you feel insecure.
I really think tho, that when a couple is married, they need to give up things like myspace and msn and yahoo chat thingies. It just makes cheating too easy. Why do people even need those things when in a committed relationship?
If he is open with you then you have no reason to doubt him.
Tell him how you are feeling. He will know the hormones of pregnancy are taking their toll and hopefully be more open and understanding.
2007-09-04 19:20:53 · answer #4 · answered by bluegirl6 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if your pregnant, relax. Your naturally protecting yourself by seeking out threats. Maybe you could tell him, "I'm getting emotional lately. It would make me feel so much more relaxed if you did something to show your love," or something to subtly hint that you want more attention or "proof"
Don't worry about the little things that will cause you to be paranoid, because it's a natural instinct to feel that way. If things get major, talk to him about it and explain that your hormones are making you insecure, that way he knows it's not trust your doubting but emotions.
In my opinion, you do love him, you are just feeling a bit unloved.
2007-09-04 19:18:00 · answer #5 · answered by neuroticangel6669 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hormones can get you all out of kilter! Is this your first pregnancy? How far along are you? How long have you been married? Make sure you don't shut him out of your life. We men aren't always the best at things like this; but I think he will help you get through this if you give him a chance.
2007-09-04 19:21:22 · answer #6 · answered by trebor namyl hcaeb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
probably just horemones. and your probably a bit insecure because you don't want him to leave you with a child?
Just stay cool. Dont even be on the lookout.
Just be yourself, love your husband, and stay happy.
2007-09-04 19:17:51 · answer #7 · answered by luvoo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im pretty sure hormones have something to do with you feeling doubtful of his love for you. but as for your suspicions, i think you should do something about it. maybe check them from time to time if you can. i only say this because i was cheated on before. don't stress out to much. taking care of yourself is most important
2007-09-04 19:17:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Golden Boy?
2016-08-07 08:13:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want your husband's love no matter due to what he is giving it to you. If he is giving it due to your preganancy then it's ok dear this is also for your baby and for you too.
2007-09-04 19:15:57 · answer #10 · answered by MEENA M 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋