hi... this is a question for the guys only. i recently found out that a guy much older than me has masturbated over me (he's 34 and I'm 14).
I think its a bit gross that he would think about me like that and i was wondering if that sort of thing is normal for guys. I'd be curious to know if anyone has ever thought of someone much younger and whether you felt afterwards that it was probably the wrong thing to think or is it ok to think like that.
just so you know... he didn't actually tell me that he did, I found out another way. He has never tried to do anything or be a sleaze or anything.
2007-09-04 18:39:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
hi guys.
thanks for taking the time to answer but i have a couple of things to clear up.
he is a guy i know and have known for a while. he isn't an internet guy or anything and he is very nice. he has never made a move or been sleazy.
i found out because a friend of mine did some probing just out of interest. so he has never actually mentioned it directly to me.
hope this helps.
2007-09-04 19:12:48 · update #1
tell your parents because next time he may do something worst to you or someone else.
2007-09-04 18:45:21 · answer #1 · answered by deecharming 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
to the dude who said it was against the law... it isn't against the law to have a fantasy. from what I can gather, the guy hasn't done anything wrong and hasn't made a move on her or anything.
Once I had a girlfriend who had a 12 year old sister that for some reason I found alluring. I knew it was inevitable I'd think about her and sure enough I did, on more than one occasion. Big deal.
2007-09-04 18:48:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
wow hes what u call a pedophile but ya dont talk 2 the guy if he Jade it off to ur pic
Your only 14 and hes 34 something is wrong with him, and he might be geting tired of just watching ur pics he might take it a step further.
2007-09-04 18:51:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart be very careful with this guy and never be with him when you are on your own, sometimes thoughts like these have a nasty habit of becoming reality.
In fact you may well be better having some distance between you and him and never ever be alone with him
2007-09-05 11:54:49 · answer #4 · answered by john h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not normal for guys to do this. just like pedifiles and stuff. U are only 14 something is seriously wrong with him. i dont care if u know him well or not stay away from him as far as u can. he could try something on u.
2007-09-04 21:26:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't quite understand how you found out that he was masturbating thinking about you anyway. Who is going to admit to doing that to anyone else?
Its one thing to simply have some fantasy but quite another to tell someone about it. That tells me he's considering going further.
2007-09-04 23:46:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow if I was in your situation I would be touched in a most profound way. My answer is {Footage not found}
Actually I'm totally kidding, thats just plain gross...one that it happened and two that he shared it with you.
2007-09-04 18:45:29 · answer #7 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably a 12 year old back when I was 13...back then I could spank it to any of the cute girls in school...now, I need some hardcore, top of the line porn to get the job done.
2007-09-04 18:42:47 · answer #8 · answered by bada_bing2k4 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
maybe a 14 year old girl when i was 15-16
2007-09-05 05:35:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
whoa no, this is serious. first it is wrong. second it is against the law and he can and will go to prison. seriously i dont know where you know this guy from, the internet, in person or whatever but, you need to not talk to him any more. and you really need to tell an adult. this guy could be a child molester or something.
ok so its not illegal to have a fantasy about someone underage, but it is the first step to doing some illegal.. sick freaks.
2007-09-04 18:44:31 · answer #10 · answered by rockon 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
im 15 and i masturbated on a 13 year old...but i like girls my age
2007-09-04 20:10:47 · answer #11 · answered by slop 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋