Good friends for a long time, never saw him like that but he's always had something for me
then just this yr. we kissed - one of the most amazing things i've experienced...
now he's acting different: can't talk as much, doesn't know what to do, apprehensive, not as confident w. me but with everyone else he is, seems to always be thinking of his next move and you can tell he's more conscious, he doesn't go to my for advice or problems as much anymore and when i confront him, he's "got it", and there are no problems...he's normal with everyone else except for me...
Did the kiss change him? everything? it dictates everything for him now...
2007-09-04 18:29:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Did the kiss change him? everything? it dictates everything for him now...
he's in his 20's btw and i gave him his first kiss
2007-09-04 18:29:34 · update #1
Maybe he was scared. He didnt want to ruin the friendship, but because you never thought of him as a potential bf..he's upset.
Maybe, because it was his first kiss, he is now nervous around you, incase you say something about it, and he doesnt know how to handle it.
Maybe, also, he feels guilty because he wanted it,but you not so much.
Do you like him anymore now, after you kissed?
Either way, you need to get him alone and talk about it. It will ruin your friendship if you dont. You need to get him to tell you what he thought happened between you both. You also need to tell him exactly how you feel about him.
Why did you kiss him, if you didnt see him as more than a friend? Maybe he's just scared or upset about how it wont work out, unless of course you have feelings for him, then tell him straightout. Don't stretch this out too long.
Goodluck ♥
2007-09-04 18:40:16 · answer #1 · answered by Clarity. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it changed everything. He's torn between wanting to keep things safe and wanting to see where this might lead. You shouldn't feel guilty about it, however; most people's first kiss is awkward one way or another.
If this was such an amazing experience I supposed you'd like to kiss him again. If he refuses, then you'll have to try to convince him you'll still be friends no matter what happens. If he accepts, then in time he should get used to the change and not be so nervous and self-conscious.
2007-09-05 01:56:01 · answer #2 · answered by Houyhnhnm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋