Hi i have been noticed some "changes" in my bf mood. Also, i feel that's something is happen behind my backs sometimes. Right now, we separated because i felt worried about he behaviors....and i decided to give us a break. But all the time, there' s something annoying my heart. Something like a bad presentiment.
Does anybody can tell me something about privates investigators.....like where can find them?, What kind of info they need??? everythinggg!!!
yes!!!! i want to send him one!! I dont want to be a stupid in this relationship and want to know if i'm wasting my time.
I live in Los Angeles CA ......All tips will be apprecciated
Thanks!!
2007-09-04 18:19:06 · 6 answers · asked by My ♥ Is In The City By The Bay! 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
EDIT: I'm not married with him yet!!
2007-09-04 18:36:34 · update #1
I love him but honestly i dont trust on him anymore because of how he's acting with me.... I used to be very open with him but he was the contrary
2007-09-04 18:40:42 · update #2
a woman intuition never fails my dear...if you are feeling helpless, insecure, unsure or anything else that is negative, you are wasting your time.
2007-09-04 18:30:26 · answer #1 · answered by Brenda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pick up a phone book and look under "private investigation".
But let me tell you something first..if you're feeling this bad about things and you're not even married then get out! You want to have someone spy on him! That's not love or trust. If you think he's cheating ...then he probably is. Just pack your things and leave. Wait til he's at work if you have to but just go. Pain like this isn't worth it. For a boyfriend?? You don't love him..and from what you've said here he doesn't love you..so call it even and start over somewhere else. You can't have a real relationship if it's not based on love, respect and trust. No matter how long it lasts...it will fail sooner or later. Good luck
2007-09-05 01:29:05 · answer #2 · answered by YOU GOTTA MOVE TO IMPROVE! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, if you're thinking about getting a private investigator, you dont trust him at all. Why are you with him if you're thinking such things?
YOU ask him, not get someone to spy on him for you. so if he's been doing something bad, you'd leave without a word? No mention of what you did? And if he hasnt been, can you imagine living with the guilt of not trusting him at all in those times?
Talk to him, thats all you need to do . DO NOT hire someone. Gain your trust with him, because i dont think you trust him at all.
Your feelings are all you need. If you feel you're wasting your time, leave the relationship before you waste more time "wondering"
2007-09-05 01:32:12 · answer #3 · answered by Clarity. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your gut.
You need some more information.
License plate number. Drivers' license number, social security number, a picture.... the more you can give them the faster a PI can get information.
You might also go to the police directly and ask them if they know anything about this guy because he really acts suspicious.
I'm at the point where I think it is a good idea for women to develop good working relationships with a PI... perhaps a bulk purchase plan... just to look up the goods on boyfriends.
You know... you can look up people on the national sex offenders on-line database.
2007-09-05 01:32:58 · answer #4 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious the trust is gone and the relationship is over, so why waste money on a private investigator?
2007-09-05 01:34:40 · answer #5 · answered by Houyhnhnm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can find an investigator in the internet shop around ask how much and how accurate his information about your boyfriend is going to be, but you know what? a womans gutts feelings are enough we are private investigators, I bet you can find this one on your own.. but an investigator is good too.
Good luck to you, send him a P.I. YOU HAVE ALL THE RIGHTS TO KNOW HONEY. GOOD LUCK AGAIN.
2007-09-05 08:21:45 · answer #6 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋