My friend told me just now she got married 2 a guy she only know for 2 months, and not only that she did not invite me 2 the wedding; not that i would of went anyway!!
We had some words and now i feel bad for i said somethings out of the way that i know that truly hurt her. Should i say i am sorry or just let her be and find out on her own she made a big mistake?
2007-09-04 17:43:09 · 6 answers · asked by ms.tea_z_t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you should say you are sorry for the way you hurt her. Let her find out what ever she needs to about her husband on her own.
2007-09-04 17:50:08 · answer #1 · answered by Tivogal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship is like an unofficial marriage. Some of the rules applies when you have (best) friend-communication is the key of being a friend. Some people believe that apologizing is a sign of sucking-down, and its not true. A person who apologize is greater than the other, and since it is a matter educating her on her big mistake all the cards are in your favor. Yes, make a minimal apology to her.
Once the craps hits the fan and she sees 'I told you so' coming from your eyes, she will apologize to you...God bless
2007-09-04 18:03:11 · answer #2 · answered by tony 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to hurt your feelings, but the way you sound in this post, I totally understand why she didn't invite you. If you wan't to be a true *friend* then just be there for her. Just because you would have went about a relationship in a different way, doesn't mean that she is wrong. What's done is done. Just let her know that you are here if she ever needs to talk.
2007-09-04 17:55:45 · answer #3 · answered by Y!A P0int5 Wh0r3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apologise for your harsh words.
Let her know that you only want what is best for her, and that you will support her decision, whatever that is.
If, as you believe, she has made a big mistake, she will need you around to pick up the pieces when it falls apart.
If not, you will have to accept your friends husband as part of her life.
It is not worth losing a friendship over.
2007-09-04 17:57:13 · answer #4 · answered by Jen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you enjoyed the friendship and want it to still go on then apologize and just be happyy for her and if the marraige doesnt work out she will know she should have listend to you
2007-09-04 18:00:37 · answer #5 · answered by pink-girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say sorry. You never know, it could work, but if it doesn't, then she'll learn her lesson.
2007-09-04 17:52:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋