My girlfriend wasnts to be a nude model for the softcore porn site suicidegirls, which I feel breaks the intimacy of our relationship. Don't get me wrong - I want her to follow her dreams, but I just dont agree with this choice. Im not going to try and stop her, this obviously isnt something I can support her in.
2007-09-04 17:15:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
I understand how you feel -- but, you can't control her. Tell her how you feel about it . . . and let her make the decision. If it's something you have to walk away from . . . then so be it.
2007-09-04 17:19:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You explained yourself pretty well, if you have issues with her actions, explain them to her in a non-confrontational way. You may need to be prepared to lose her or you could go along with her when she poses. It may turn into an erotic situation for both of you. If you do find that idea distastful, though, you need to decide if the relationship is worth the effort if she insists on doing something you are clearly not happy with.
2007-09-05 00:21:09 · answer #2 · answered by Don Drapers woman 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If it is a deal breaker, tell her.
Let her know that she has to choose between posing nude for strangers or having a relationship with you, and that you can't handle it otherwise.
You won't be telling her what she can or can't do, just having her make a choice between you and a bunch of strangers.
Good Luck.
Doc
2007-09-05 00:20:45 · answer #3 · answered by Doc Hudson 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It really doesn't sound like that big of a deal, except from your perspective. Maybe, instead of trying to stop her, you could think about WHY it bothers you, and maybe you'd realize that it shouldn't. Why don't you want other people looking at her? Do you feel like you should own her body (subconsciously)? Or, on the other hand, maybe it's just the way you tick. Talk to her about your feelings, and maybe you can work out a compromise.
2007-09-05 00:21:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hey go ahead and let her do this as long as she is not violated by other men. Simulated sex is not the real thing, but make sure you can be there to check things out for yourself. If she will not agree, Dump Her!
2007-09-05 00:33:26 · answer #5 · answered by Dick E knee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, on no uncertain terms, that you DO NOT WANT her to pose nude so a bunch of Teenage boys and Pervs can whack off to her picture!
Her dream is to be masturbation fodder for strangers? She needs bigger dreams.
Do not fall for that "It's My Body" nonsense. Forget "Adult Employee", forget "Sex Worker" forget "Exotic Model", these are all euphemisms for what a woman who bares her all to strangers for money is really called:
Whore.
2007-09-05 00:25:55 · answer #6 · answered by d_cider1 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell her if she does, your going to model nude on national TV, if she likes that idea, get a new girlfriend.
2007-09-05 00:19:30 · answer #7 · answered by lilly4 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Talk to her about it. Tell her you don't feel comfortable with it. And that you want to be the only one who watches her. That that is private. Or something along those lines.
2007-09-05 00:19:55 · answer #8 · answered by VanityRayne89 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is this 'obviously' something you can't support her in? She is your girlfriend, not your wife. If she wants to model, then let her model, and give her your blessing. It's selfish and petty to tell her that she can't follow her dream just because you have an issue with nudity.
2007-09-05 00:19:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
DON'T CONVINCE HER TO DO ANYTHING SHE OBVIOUSLY
MADE THAT DECISION HERSELF, IF YOUR NOT COOL WITH IT, YOU MIGHT WANT TO BREAK THINGS UP AND LOOK FOR A GIRL WITH HIGHER VALUES.
2007-09-05 13:44:41 · answer #10 · answered by EDDY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋