Why is it a man tells you what he thinks and a Women tells you what she feels?

Answer 1

Because Men and Women think differently than each other. Women are geared toward feelings and men are geared toward action. So a man mostly want to fix what ever he feels is wrong. A woman wants to analyze the issue and comes at it from the direction of how it affects her emotionally. Since women are the primary care takers of the next generation they are geared to nurture and Men who are primarily still responsible for supplying the means of taking care of the family are geared to making sure that things are taken care of so that can happen.

Answer 2

"Our two minds .... One is an act of the emotional
mind, the other of the rational mind. In a very real
sense we have two minds, one that thinks and one that
feels" (Daniel Goleman, Emotional Intelligence,
Bloomsbury Publishing, London, 1996, page 8).

The Upanishads call the emotional component of mind as
Chitta and the rational component of mind as Manas.
The Upanishads say that these two are opposite in
nature. Modern psychologist also have observed it,
but they are not very sure about it:

"At the same time, reason sometimes clearly seems
to come into conflict with some desires (even
while not being in conflict with others) giving us
the impression that reason is separate from
emotion".

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reason

In general, women excel in Chitta and men excel in Manas.
Men have the ability to transcend the limitations of
Manas and activate the higher component of mind Buddhi
(intellect or wisdom) which deals with higher knowledge.
Very few women can activate this component.

http://profvsprasad.blog.com/

Answer 3

A man ain't got enough sense to shut up and then go do what he wants to. He has to beat his chest. Run his mouth and all the time she just smiles.
Then she tells you how she feels and you just know that how she feels better be pretty close to how you act are you are going to be punished.
No one can punish a man like a women. She can eat him up and spit him out and never move from the couch.
Suddenly food sucks, beer is warm and flat. You can't hear TV over the sewing machine.
Man should just shut up and go on and do what he wants to do which she will tell him when she is ready.

Answer 4

Hmmm thats a good question...Man dont like to express how they "feel" because they think others would perceive them as gay. Unlike women, they need to share what they feel because it is strong in their hearts and need to be heard by everyone because it is more than a feeling..more like a part of you. Men men men are so full of **** sometimes they just tell you what is on the surface and do not even try to go deep within themselves to find the answer.

Answer 5

I think that men tend to sway more toward a logic approach whilst women toward what's in their heart. Not saying that we don't both have logic or the capacity to feel from our hearts. It is the way we are made up. Overall man being the provider and protector while women are inclined to be the nurturer.

Answer 6

Men perhaps don't always want to say how they feel or find it easier to say what they think. Women may find it easier to first explain how they feel, then elaborate on what they think. Just one of the differences between them, I would say.

Answer 7

men think cause they are more concern about producing goods or capital to entertain and hopefully gain more attention from the girls while women watch soaps and stuff... come to think about it I don't now why women think with their heart, but I do know that it's not good business to think with your heart. In fact that's the best way to loss your business.

Answer 8

I'm a woman and I can't ever recall talking about my feelings. If I'm pissed off or upset about something, I will say why I'm that way and what caused it. I don't talk about how I feel.

Answer 9

"Easy. Men don't have feelings."

Easy. Women don't think

Lolz :P

Answer 10

Easy. Men don't have feelings.