I am a newlywed, we married in April 07 and so far, things are going well but I keep feeling a fear of us breaking up soon. I need to know if hes going to be around for a long time; and also can you tell me anything about him that I should know.....please clear your minds and help me!!!
2007-09-04 16:53:19 · 9 answers · asked by Lovely 4 in Science & Mathematics ➔ Alternative ➔ Parapsychology
stop worrying! You have a fear of abandonment , get over it! good luck. IF he does leave you at some point, deal with it now. Don't worry about what could happen now, live in the present moment!
2007-09-06 07:09:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the two biggest downfalls of marriage is fairy tale love and magical thinking.
Love is a verb. Its an action, not an emotion. If you believe love is an emotion, it wont last very long. The emotional side of love has good and bad days. Marriage is something you need to work at, not something that happens to two soul mates.
Soul mates are temporary. Marriage is meant to be a permanent commitment to someone in the eyes of God.
Even if it was possible for a psychic to tell the future, they would not have good intentions for you. True psychics get their powers from demonic possession and therefore have ill will towards things like love and marriage.
2007-09-05 09:33:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't need psychics, you need faith. Trust and faith is a two-way thing. To be worthy, it has to work both ways. Since it's been only 4 months into married life, I think you should give it a good, honest shot at making it work. Your apprehensions may be unfounded. Relationship anxiety is what's getting you worked up and restless. Be assured and stay calm. Don't give in to the impulses of unnecessary thought. Be brave and focus on the positives. The negatives have no place in growing relationships.
2007-09-05 01:48:49 · answer #3 · answered by Lia A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your first problem is believing in psychics and not int he strength of your marriage. With your attitude it is sure to fail so change it now. Don't worry about something you have no control over. Work in the present and build a strong, stable relationship. Don't waste your money and time on psuedo science because they will only tell you want you want to hear.
Where were they for 911? For the tsunami? For New Orleans? You control and shape your destiny. No one else.
2007-09-05 00:04:04 · answer #4 · answered by J S 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I can offer you some advice on making things last--don't ask for advice from total strangers. Take some responsibility for your life and your marriage. Don't take the lazy way by asking some psychic what to do and how to feel. If you're uncertain then talk to your spouse. It's quite likely you're just being hysterical. He is the one you need to talk to, not some charlatan.
2007-09-05 09:53:42 · answer #5 · answered by Peter D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I am psychic, and I recognize an anxiety attack a continent away. You should be still feeling on top of the world looking through pink glasses, not looking at everything that can go wrong.
Get married to a stranger by the looks of it. Volunteering information on a person, who has not ordered this information to be asked, is not just rude, for me it a forbidden subject. And you young newly wed should get a grip on yourself, or confront him with your suspicion.
2007-09-05 00:31:05 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Alma of Avalon Grailguard 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
with all due respect ,the one who's got to clear your mind it's
you,your insecurities can lead you to failure,not even in your marriage but in your social relations as well,just by saying so far,means that you are not enjoying what you have live up until now,but rather you are looking for the "i caught you off the base" moment..but maybe it has to do with your nature,(possessive and jealous)if i would be an astrologer i would say
you have a Leo or Cancer profile...so take it easy and enjoy life!
2007-09-05 02:30:11 · answer #7 · answered by kokopelli 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay positive and tolerant and things will work out.
And remember anyone who claims to have psychic powers is a total fraud.
2007-09-05 00:17:30 · answer #8 · answered by Mimik 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are a Navy wife.You have access to Counselors and Therapists.You'll be much better off going to them.They actually can help.
2007-09-05 00:15:41 · answer #9 · answered by Dr. NG 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋