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i broke up with my bf cuz he was being un boyfriend like.. i mean like he wasnt calling me or paying any attention to me , so i ended it. while we were going out he would never write to me on aim! now that i broke up with him he's ALWAYS the one to write me first and hes all nice and stuff.
he talks about other girls and how hes good wit girls and stuff.
oh and also he still likes me. but hes being nicer now that we're not together
i dont get it!!!!
2007-09-04 15:46:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
cuz when ur in a relationship, u kinda think of hte person as your own, like u wont ever loose that person, and watever, ull yell at them , cuz u know they'll still be there, but since u broke up he has realized that your not his no moree, and soo he realizes he cant treat u like he use to, eveyrone makes the same mistakes take advantage of what you have, sum ppl realize it earlier sum ppl take time, some ppl have trouble expressing love when their in a relationship cuz there afraid of it becomign to serious, but when there not in a relationship they realize they want to be
2007-09-04 15:52:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
First off, that's not even a question.
And honestly, you seem sort of snotty. You don't even care that maybe he was too embarrassed to talk to you because he didn't know what to say. Maybe he felt like all the pressure was on him to say the right thing, so he simply avoided it.
Also, the same thing happened to me. I was going out with this guy and we never even talked, so we broke up. Then we became best friends and we talked all the time after that. Maybe all you need to do is stop being so snotty about it and accept his kindness and be a friend to him.
2007-09-04 22:53:25 · answer #2 · answered by Milly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there might be two different things going on here. First he may now realize what he had and no longer has.
The second is he may very well be more comfortable with you as a friend. I say this as he talk to you about other girls. If he is doing this I'd have to say he isn't concerned about getting you back.
2007-09-04 22:53:22 · answer #3 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your expecting too much out of him. Boys aren't fans of talking on the phone, or talking period. Nearly all guys talk about other girls, and say they are good with them, well because they are boys of course lol! The reason why he probably likes you more is because you put to much pressure on him, you made him nervous, POOR GUY! Maybe you will take my advice and give him a second chance and maybe you will learn to love him even more than you did.
2007-09-04 22:54:13 · answer #4 · answered by •♣•Ninja•♣• •♣•Bunny•♣• 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's really common when people break up to do that. They hate for people to think badly of them. It's called guilt sweetie.
2007-09-04 22:53:55 · answer #5 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he feels more comfortable being friends than being your boyfriend. Thats the only explination I can think of.
2007-09-04 22:53:58 · answer #6 · answered by *Forget me not* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be mean you guys.
shes not snotty or anything.
oh and she aint in middle school either ahah. f tards.
2007-09-04 23:03:31 · answer #7 · answered by Treasury 3 Tears. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, he is probably trying to make you jealous...in a nice way. weird.
2007-09-04 22:53:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You were always there. now, You're not. it's called being taken for granted.
2007-09-04 22:51:55 · answer #9 · answered by ny21tb 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you did him a favor...
2007-09-04 22:54:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋