Okay, so I recently became friends with a very "large" guy, and by friends I mean with benifits. We haven't had sex yet, due to certain circumstances of the time (i was on my period, to be blunt) but I'm seriously worried about when "it" does happen. Where I'm not exactly a virgin, I've never been with anyone quite that big in that region. In fact, he's a full inch larger than the biggest I've been with, and that scares me a bit.
Question here is, is there any way to make it hurt less this first time? I mean, obviously lube and lots of foreplay are going to ease it, but are there any special tricks to confortably taking a 9 1/2" ya-know? Intelligant answers are much appreciated.
2007-09-04 14:58:05 · 9 answers · asked by mandy 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
It'll be slightly uncomfortable at first, but just have him take it slow until you get more comfortable. It won't take long. :o)
2007-09-04 15:05:05 · answer #1 · answered by deandean23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the woman and how much you can handle inside of you. Some women are smaller in that area and some are looser and larger. Just take it easier. Just ease it in slowly until you feel comfortable. Usually it helps if the guy is this big to have him on the top for the first few times and then find positions that won't hurt you.
2007-09-04 22:12:52 · answer #2 · answered by hsmommy06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember: Average baby is 22 inches, 7.5 pounds and fits in the same space. Don't think about it or you will tense up and if you are tense, 3 inches will be too big.
I've had "big" and "small", not really much difference once the action starts.
2007-09-04 23:49:04 · answer #3 · answered by Judy B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best positions for you would be missionary, spooning (him behind you), and you on top (that way you can control the depth and speed).
I wouldn't recommend doggy style becuase that really opens things up, and with such a large guy you really don't need that. Good luck
2007-09-04 22:13:06 · answer #4 · answered by ChyTay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my I have the same exact problem only we are gonna do it Friday. and hes 9 2 so ya and im a virgin. Im a little worried for me as well.
2007-09-04 22:24:07 · answer #5 · answered by A person 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read "In the Valley of Horses" by Jean M. Auel. She has lots of ideas. (Of course, you might want to read "The Clan of the Cave Bear" first and continue with the series after reading "In the Valley of Horses.")
2007-09-04 22:06:00 · answer #6 · answered by javadic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put a pillow under your buttocks, and use astorglide. you can purchachace this at wal-mart or any drug store, and do forplay.
Good luck
Alabama
2007-09-04 22:08:38 · answer #7 · answered by James R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont stress out and dont be scaired. and what ever you do dont tence up your body. just relax and enjoy the ride lol
2007-09-04 22:34:32 · answer #8 · answered by hot and spicy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well don't let him go in all the way the first couple of times, and if its too painful theres always another hole that women like it up.
2007-09-04 22:08:43 · answer #9 · answered by kleino383 3 · 1⤊ 6⤋