but the next day he calls you and says he wants to see other people...what would you do or how would you react? Would you also start going out with different people or you lay low and hoping your date would ask you out again? just curious..
2007-09-04 13:32:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I would be ashamed that somewhere throughout our courtship I did not spot that he was not a stable man. IF all nine dates were great times why, then, why would he want to start dating other people? Is he a tramp? Is he afraid of commitment? Is he too immature to care for another's feelings? Well, there are many variables that could be taking place here, but, as you can see - NONE of them can be good. I would not give him a hard time...what would be the point? And, if I thought I could talk him into dating me exclusively, well...how long would that last? If he has made it known he wants to date other people, then that is exactly what he's going to do. No matter what I do or say...or wear...;) So, I would let him go. Then, I would get tested...Then, I would prob. get drunk. lol here ya go, DC! Have a star.
2007-09-04 13:57:26 · answer #1 · answered by philisopheyes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh christ the guy I am dating now we have been going out for quite some time and I am begging him to find someone else & he uis younger than me but he won't and it is driving me crazy, I can't figure out how to get rid of him as he says if I cheat on him he will kill the guy! But i can't cheat because that is just wrong! So I would probably be happy and go on my marry way and date others and enjoy my freedom~!
2007-09-04 13:40:11 · answer #2 · answered by Tigerluvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be helpful. Be your self. circulate with the circulate. pay interest to what she says whilst she speaks. Ask questions approximately her. Be trustworthy consisting of your solutions approximately your self. Be respectful of her. in case you circulate out to dinner, be respectful to the waitstaff. carry the door for her, pull out her chair on the table. Dont circulate over the precise, do in basic terms what feels organic. in case you comprehend earlier than time she loves a undeniable nutrition, park, interest, attempt to contain that into the date. be conscious of your manners. If the spark is there, you will sense it and each thing will circulate for sure. And ultimately, relax and function relaxing! She is making an attempt to influence you too, so dont spend the entire nighttime putting on a custom. Be your self!!
2016-11-14 05:17:29 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honest, If after 9dates she wanted too see others,it would be fine with me. I would start going out with others. I know you said"ladies,but I wanted to put my two cents in".
2007-09-04 13:38:59 · answer #4 · answered by fred a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be thinking things are moving too fast. So, just wait him out. If he cares, he will call within two weeks. If he doesn't , then it's time to move on.
2007-09-04 13:37:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would get over it. I don't want to be with someone who doesn't want me. BUt I would be curious to what was going on, and would expect and honest explaination!
2007-09-04 13:36:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would think that was a waste of my time and look for other things to do with my life
2007-09-04 13:37:42 · answer #7 · answered by dancingfoolx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd be really hurt, and I probably wouldn't see that person again. His loss, I say.
2007-09-04 13:43:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd be enormously hurt but I'd probably eventually date someone else.
2007-09-04 13:35:47 · answer #9 · answered by Jess 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would start seeing others too and hope that if it was meant to be for us that we would find our way back together.
2007-09-05 05:15:09 · answer #10 · answered by Nurse Susie ♥ hugs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋