What should I do?
2007-09-04 12:59:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
you know very well the answer to this one.. ists a question of are you willing to accept that truth??\
PACK UP AND LEAVE!! if you have any love left for yourself and your soon to be baby... leave at once and put an end to this abuse.
2007-09-04 13:05:00 · answer #1 · answered by mommyof3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this real?? Why are you asking strangers on the internet?? In case you just have nobody to talk to and you do not know the answer....
Leave him. Go stay with family or friends (if you are living with the boyfriend). Call the cops. Get a restraining order. Don't listen to a word he says. Don't let him talk you out of it. You have to think about your baby. That is what matters.
2007-09-04 13:25:56 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie...please leave him. If he hits you when you are pregnant what do you think he will do once the baby gets here. I will tell you what happened to my best friend and if you are not motivated by this then I have no other advise for you. She was in an abusive relationship and at first it was just possesive. But even his possesive phase was horrible for me to see her go through...he would lock her IN the house. Not out but in. Caged like an animal. I would sit outside her door talking to her until he came home. Then he became totally abusive. He would beat her in front of her daughter. She was a little tiny thing like 5'1 & 95 pounds. He was a former navy officer. He beat her so bad one day that she couldnt even walk or hold a phone. He beat her with the handle to a plunger. He beat her with a broom, anything he could. The night after her "last" beating I stayed the night and we were going the next morning to get her a restraining order. Well at around 3am he broke into her house and held us at gunpoint for 3 hours. He shot her in the hip the minute he walked in the door. She bled for 3 hours. He then woke her mom up and her little girl who was 4 at the time. He hated me and at one point told me to lay on the couch and put a pillow over my head...I thought that I was dead. About an 2 hours later her mom needed to use the bathroom and he told her to go and he shot her in the head as she was on the toilet. Then he told me to take her little girl and go in the bedroom. I had to rip her from her moms arms as she screamed for me to help her. He put the gun at me and told me to go. For a few minutes they were arguing and yelling nad then I heard it...the shot that took my life away. My best friend in the entire world was gone...and for what??? Not a damn thing because some "man" was scared to go to jail for domestic violence. Please sweetie, leave, take your baby and leave. Give your baby a chance to live without voilence. If your baby is born into a house like that that will be all they know....please leave you do have options. Good Luck and God Bless you and your little angel
2007-09-04 14:12:46 · answer #3 · answered by jillys110580 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really hope you take what all these girls are saying to heart. Coming to you from a girl who lost her cousin to an abusive relationship. You might think that he'll change, but he won't. You might think that you can't do it without him, but you can! You may think that your baby deserves him in its life, but it doesn't need someone like that in its life. You can, and DESERVE way better than someone like that. Get out before it's too late and your baby won't get to grow up with a mother or a father.
Be strong! There's tons of groups that are willing to help someone in your situation. You can do this!
2007-09-04 13:16:58 · answer #4 · answered by Soon2BMrsB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you ever let a guy like that be the father of your baby. Unless it was by accident. Clearly he doesnt care much about you, and probably not much more for the baby. Whats done is done, you cant change that now.
You already know the right thing to do, for the baby's sake anyways.
2007-09-04 13:09:17 · answer #5 · answered by speedy266 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Umm...call the cops and have him arrested for domestic abuse and endangerment of a child. Leave his sorry butt...do you want him to end up hitting your child when it is born?? You need to get out now and go somewhere safe...with family or into a pregnancy home. Contact social services.
2007-09-04 13:38:36 · answer #6 · answered by bpfashion123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the bastard cared about you and his baby, he wouldn't hit you at all. He shouldn't hit you whether you're pregnant or not. He is not a real man if he hits a woman. He's a coward and you should leave him!!! Do not go back to him either. You and your child are in danger.
2007-09-04 13:16:18 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Shania♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away before he kills you or your baby. Call the cops and go to a safe house. Press charges cause if you don't and something happens 2 u he will have legal custody if he's the father of your baby.
2007-09-04 13:56:29 · answer #8 · answered by lovelylady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek comfort in your friends and family. They love you. Get away from him but keep your loved ones close. You don't want your child to grow up with only one parental figure.
Frankly, you should have left him the second this started. I mean, it'll be tough, but you have make him leave.
2007-09-04 13:09:48 · answer #9 · answered by one_of_the_saved 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on girl.. respect yourself alittle bit.. i mean i have no idea whats like to be in your situation but you should sit down with him and tell him that you deserve respect, and if he loves you he needs to change. otherwise take your baby and leave him... imean what life can you expect he is going to give your baby if he is disrespecting you that way?? you cant let him do that to you!! have some love to yourself and your baby..!!
good luck!!
2007-09-04 13:10:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋