She is in the process of getting a protective order, but in the mean time as he continues to come over, if he comes on our property is there a way to have him arrested for trespassing if we post up signs, or maybe just beat some sense into him in self-defense?
2007-09-04 11:54:56 · 16 answers · asked by chunkitron3030 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
Also forgot to mention the divorce is finalized and he lives at a place of his own now too.
2007-09-04 11:55:48 · update #1
not really i believe... but im not gonna lie... id effing stab that bast@rd
2007-09-04 12:00:39 · answer #1 · answered by KeLsO 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I hit him with a ball bat? - Only if he attacks you first. Self defense can be difficult to prove. Best to remain calm. She can ask him to leave and if he does not he can be arrested for trespassing if the house is not his residence.
By the way, the posting of this question could be used to show premeditation. As such, he could use this to disprove a "self defense" claim made by you.
2007-09-04 12:02:47 · answer #2 · answered by davidmi711 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if he attacks you first I dont know what state you live in but if he dosent live there the next time he comes over call the Law and have him given a notice of trespass then the next time he can be arrested
2007-09-04 12:04:42 · answer #3 · answered by tap158 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a " Make My Day " law in your state, you can use deadly force to stop a violent situation IN YOUR RESIDENCE.
This gets the cops of their dead @sses and do something about the situation. YOU are ultimately responsible for your safety, the Supreme have ruled. So if you dial 911, say he has a weapon and you have a weapon and will defend yourself.
Then take care of the situation as you see fit. Remember, you would rather be judged by twelve than carried by six...
2007-09-04 12:14:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the initial protective order takes over 2 hours, contact your local government and wake them up. Get someone from a battered women's group involved. Get someone from a victim's rights group involved.
You have a right to PROTECT reactively, not to retaliate for something done in the past.
2007-09-04 12:06:54 · answer #5 · answered by Tom K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 23:23:18 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do not compound the situation by getting yourself arrested for assault with a deadly weapon (bat). If you see him on your mother's property....call the police they will come and if appropriate they may arrest him. Also you might want call and have the police do a close patrol of your house.
2007-09-04 12:02:20 · answer #7 · answered by malter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as you may want to, this is illegal.
Until she gets the restraining order, it's perfectly legal for him to march over any time he wants. Yes, it would be smart to post signs, but look into something else, too...a deadlock and a doorbell. Try window locks, too.
Good luck!
2007-09-04 12:00:30 · answer #8 · answered by Mandy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, aim for the knees, elbows, or just crack his grape and he will never bother anyone again..Dont forget batting gloves for a sure grip, follow through on your swings for max effect!!
2007-09-04 12:01:50 · answer #9 · answered by LAVADOG 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if his legal address is at another residence you can have him arrested for tresspassing. you can not hit him or assault him in any way unless he has struck you first and you are acting in actual (not presumed) self defense.
2007-09-04 12:01:25 · answer #10 · answered by pandora078 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can hit him with a bat where ever you want, the question is what will he and/or the cops do about it.
2007-09-04 12:00:21 · answer #11 · answered by Lavrenti Beria 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋