you gotta realistic when answering this. be as specific as you can! use your deep heart to answer it, not just your head! thanks!
2007-09-04 10:35:36 · 9 answers · asked by Tea Lover 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
so i'm no guy but i got a good idea of how they stereotypically think as i've got plenty of guy friends.
ok firstly, this is very, very loosely and stereotypically speaking but it's quite accurate in my exp.
oriental guys are shallow as hell (they even admit it to me, the bastards. lol). asian guys usually like girls with a vulnerable appearance. one who they feel they can protect (so quite feminine) but at the same time, can offer the independent emotional support that most guys lack. they don't like girls who are stronger than them (mentally and certainly not physically). it makes them feel inferior and they need that 'i'm the man' security. they generally don't like their g/fs to be more intelligent than them either but clever enough to be independent and not clingy. looks are more important than personality as looking slutty or ultra cute is a yes, yes.
hence, looks+vulnerable+supportive.
caucasians (in britain) are looking for independent, intelligent and mentally strong girls. usually ones that equal or outmatch them in wit. far more accepting of the tomboy attitude in comparison to asian guys. they see strength as inspiration to them as support. a girl they'd define as 'perfect' such as the fictional game character, lara croft. looks are less important as slutty is a no, no. personality matters more.
hence, looks+intelligence+strength.
looks will always be a factor as let's face it. guy's can't have sex with a personality. they need visual stimulation mostly.
sorry if i offended any guys here but ah, it's true in some regions. don't deny it.
2007-09-04 10:59:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I search for a woman I can look at and not see as gross. Which considering that I consider almost everyone has a quality that makes them at least OK to look at , It wouldn't be to tough to meat that prerequisite.
I want a woman who can find what I am interested in interesting , even if she doesn't share the same interests. I want to find her interests interesting to , even if I don't share them.
Most of all I want a woman who will be one of my best friends for the rest of my life. If not the best friend of my life.
That may seem rather simple , but I thought about it a lot will growing up and later , and that is the answer I came up with.
I had fantasized about two woman that I had made up especially for that purpose. Both had those qualities in them. Though I gave up on fantasies of woman a long time ago. Though both tended to be good looking of course.
I don't want to get to specific. That could lead me to be prejudiced against any possible dream wife that comes along. I rather let the details become the ones that are made up of her. Not ones I decided on before hand.
2007-09-04 12:11:32 · answer #2 · answered by RedBirdofChaos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dream girl..... well i am a military man and i need a trustful and responsible women i wish her to be passionate and adventurous in bed and caring when it comes to future family i wanna know she would be good to my children if i ever went to iraq and that she would be true to me the women woudl need to be secure on her own and both dependent and independant to where she can take care of the business thats needs done when i am away. i wish her to be able to look at my family and smile even when there outa line but not entirely give in either, and turn a bad situation into a brighter and better one. I seek a confident women both in heart and spirit one to lift off my own insecurities and build me back up when i have fallen low, and one who can look me in the eyes and not only tell me she loves me but allows me to feel it as well. and i think the biggest and yet most important thing is a strong want and need for a peaceful and successful career and future all together she needs to want to better herself as i do and even though be successful i really mean happy with her career and her life...................what it would be like if i really met her.........love
2007-09-04 12:04:00 · answer #3 · answered by anthony d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tall, in-shape, good sense of humor a must.
Confident and has her own positive dreams, desires and friends.
Must enjoy/tolerate sports and love/appreciate beauty.
Has to be into"NOT Keeping up with the Jone's "
2007-09-04 10:47:36 · answer #4 · answered by Ronatnyu 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I won't know her until I meet her. Until then, creating this 'perfect woman' scenario only shortchanges the actual women I will meet.
While it is good to have standards, unreasonable ideals only create standards no one can live by. I'm 32, half-bald, and have a few crooked teeth... why does my girl have to be 'perfect?' If she was 'perfect,' why the heck would she be with me? I'm not perfect.
Ever meet someone who says their partner is 'perfect?' Do they say that 2 years later? No, because they have realized that their partner is not as perfect as they projected them out to be. You have to accept and love people for who they are, not who you hope they'll turn out to be.
2007-09-04 10:53:26 · answer #5 · answered by eine kleine nukedmusik 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I can only speak for myself. 5'4" to 5'6", 110 to 120 lbs., brunette or black hair, green or hazel eyes, enjoys her job, likes active sports and games, has a hand full of her own friends and worships the ground beneath my feet. + a few unmentionables.
2007-09-04 10:43:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dream girl
would first be a lady who has high standing morals,confidence,and takes pride in herself
white but dark skinned with black/brown hair and brown/green eyes and active i am Hungarian myself so if she is Hungarian that's a bigg plus!and of course cant forget loyal and loyalty is different from being a slave btw.....
2007-09-04 10:59:11 · answer #7 · answered by William K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say some beautiful, charming, funny, and not a psycho(we all know one of those).
2007-09-04 19:05:37 · answer #8 · answered by Coma White 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same as previous... But must have boat ;-)
2007-09-04 10:47:21 · answer #9 · answered by handy_dog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋