my sisters who are 7and 9 are making a plan to get my parents back together.they got divorced a couple months ago and they took it pretty hard.im 15 and they only dude in the house so they always want to be around me which gets pretty annoying pretty fast.but my parents expect me to be with them every second.which i dont realy care sometimes there my sisters and i love them but they want to be there all the time and they get really annoying. i even suggested that we spend some timealone sometimes if they let me hve my pricacy. but the thing is with this plan,it envolves my moms new boyfriend who she wants to marry. they want him gone and they wont tell me exactly but they are gonna do something.. so what do i do to find out?i cant talk to my mom cuz she gets pised off and my dad doesnt give a sht about us.my sisters dont no tht but he says were a waste of his time and money and he dont want anything to do with us but he stil wants us to go thre evry other weekend and stuf.whts goin on?
2007-09-04 10:22:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
first off my parents are divorced too and my dad is a dead beat. he couldn't care less about us so i know what its like for you. im the oldest of my 7 siblings so im always stuck in the house babysitting them. no matter what your sisters do they will not be able to get your parents back together. but if you want to know what your sisters are gonna do act like you hate your moms bf when ever your around your sisters and tell them you want in. make them think your on their side and tell them you could help them. your not gonna do it but that might make them want your help. my dad use to want to visit the kids every once in a while because that was his excuse for not paying child support. he would say that he paid for them on the visit so he doesn't have to do any more. a load of ****. i haven't seen or talked to him in years. im not saying your dads doing that too but if hes any thing like mine he might be trying to pull a quick one. he even though he doesn't want to spend his money he may miss you guys
2007-09-04 10:35:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce is a very sad thing. Your sisters being young, they probably want to get rid of any person that could possibly replace your dad. So, what i suggest is you be extra nice to them and try to con the plan out of them. If it doesnt work, then let them go through with it. They are only 7 and 9, how bad could this plan possibly be?
2007-09-04 17:31:07 · answer #2 · answered by meggie12345 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pops mite be using you guys to get back at mother, maybe he does not want to care right now for it hurts to much at this time. If you do tell him mother will take it as if he is trying to control her life or does not want to see her happy. You should tell mother your fears, they may be unfounded. I have 17 children of my own, little girls do talk a lot about every thing and in the end most the time do nothing. If you like mother's new guy tell him, he could make a bigger effort to win them over.
2007-09-04 17:43:22 · answer #3 · answered by zipper 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋