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2007-09-04 08:18:46 · 12 answers · asked by Im addicted to the memory of him 3 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Respect through fear. Everyone will most likely say through love but thats not really respect. Someone could be in love and not totally respect there significant other. Many people say that fear is stronger than love. I agree completely. Being in a relationship with another will obviously give you respect for one another. But respect through fear gives you power and safety. Love is more preferable though. Everyone wants love to be the number one answer to any solution. Hope this helps ;)
2007-09-04 08:28:11 · answer #1 · answered by Diane D 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Both ways: For family and friends: respect thru love!
For people supervising respect out of enough fear of what I will do if they do not do as instructed. Then respect because of being fair and honest in treating everyone the same with same rules for everyone and applied the same across the board.
2007-09-04 08:47:30 · answer #2 · answered by JUAN FRAN$$$ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither. I prefer respect based on a mutual understanding that we are all equals. That I may know or understand something that they don't and they know things that I never will. Gaining respect any other way is not actually respect. Fear causes people to resent you and love should stand seperately from respect.
2007-09-04 09:15:16 · answer #3 · answered by Minorarcana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always felt that I would rather be Respected than feared... I would want to be respected for my convictions, principles, values and morals that I live by...
I don't think that people who fear you necessarily respect you. If people respect you they will have loyalty, confidence & trust in you, but if people are afraid of you they are only dealing and putting up with you out of terror.
If you have peoples respect you can usually trust them not to betray you and they will want to be around you with out being forced to, but with fear.... if people see a chance and have strength in numbers they will take you down to get away from you.
The question is whether you want to be seen as a genuine kind and friendly person or a Tyrant that is horrifying and people don't want to be around.
2007-09-05 03:51:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Respect through love, in any relationship. We talked about that somewhat in my philosophy class today, and why people believe in God.. is it because they fear him or love him? I think in some relationships, like mother-to-child relationship there has to be some fear there. But love conquers everything, because it's just better. And you'll have a better relationship if you don't respect someone just because of fear.
2007-09-04 08:26:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
respect through fear is not sincere respect, because it's in some way forced by the person in power. and respect through love is not really objective since you always are a bit too indulgent with someone you like. I think respect is some sort of admiration, (not groupie style, just casual well earned admiration) for a vertue or act...
2007-09-04 08:25:45 · answer #6 · answered by Onega 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Since it is not necessary to love or even like someone to have respect for them I'd say "true" respect is something that one earns through their actions, ideas, intelligence and/or accomplishments and can not be based soley on subjective feelings such as love or fear.
2007-09-04 09:14:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect is a worthless concept.
Respect can not be through love, it can only be through intimidation and coersion.
Caring is the concept you are looking for. It is what a person truly is looking for out of a relationship. It is that willing and wanting feeling that motivates a person to do what you want them to do.
If you consider that respect through love then so be it, that is your answer, but, I want noone's respect only they caring and admiration, and in return I give them the same.
2007-09-04 08:42:02 · answer #8 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
respect through love because there is nothing to fear except for fear itself
2007-09-04 08:38:39 · answer #9 · answered by Iceman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
appreciate through concern isn't appreciate. that is concern. appreciate through love is the only form of appreciate there is. appreciate demands a point of comradery that concern in basic terms does not enable. If somebody is in concern, that is a very unfavourable state to vibrate interior of. they are going to be stressful, on area, jittery, speedy to anger. They experience lack, they experience possibility. that is in basic terms a bad thank you to stay and consequences one's well-being in a like way. that is purely what you provide away which you get in return. in case you provide somebody a grin, you will get one back quicker or later in time. provide money, and surprisingly human beings will sense at risk of offer to you quicker or later. provide human beings plenty appreciate, and that they are going to appreciate you. in case you do something large or remarkable, human beings will nicely known that accomplishment. and that's all appreciate relatively is. that is saying I nicely known you as a worth or remarkable person. you are able to no longer relatively get that from concern in any authentic experience to my suggestions. for this reason certainly my reaction would be appreciate through Love.
2016-10-17 22:46:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋