My mother is Indian and my father is white; I am dating a white supremacist who considers me to be different from the other anglo indians. He tells me " You are not like them". Why does he make an exception for me yet call others of my origin names such as mongrels? He says he loves me but I don't know why he is such a hypocrite.
2007-09-04 07:14:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I missed the hate part that everyone is dwelling on. If he thinks his race is the best, how is that different than the caste system? Are peole that marry out of their castes hypocrites? What are your feelings for him? why do you feel like exposing your thoughts to millions- but not him?
2007-09-04 07:53:18 · answer #1 · answered by beauhonkus 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This does not sound good. For one thing, let's say that you get serious with this guy. What's to say that he won't hold your race against you every time there is an argument? Some people are like that. If he is against other Indians, why would he think one is better than the other? You should probably get out while you can. The only reason to stay would be if he changes big time!
2007-09-04 07:19:13 · answer #2 · answered by teddy 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i could no longer date someone who calls 'my human beings' derogatory names. He says that 'you're unlike them' yet is your mom? Or your grandparents? you already know? the place does his exceptions stop? At you or your destiny toddlers? i'm a minority and that i've got dated exterior my race and that i do no longer see a concern with it. I even have dated those that pronounced as me names in accordance to my race. I even have dated those that by no capacity delivered it up. So I communicate from adventure. that is hurtful. i'm no section Indian yet i think of which you have a desirable history. To have your better half placed that down is disgusting. Be proud and stick up for your self, your loved ones and your lifestyle. get rid of him.
2016-10-17 22:37:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM! He is disrepecting your moms side of the family and your culture. Look sweetie I am native american indian. People said we were savage and uncivilized. My teacher and I quote said "That's an indian for ya,ain't got no sense". All the indians got mad and went off and flipped out. Anyone who will disrept you and your family like tht doesn't deserve you. Matter of fact no racist person deserves much of anything.
2007-09-04 10:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
is there an influence in his life that makes him feel like it is necessary to feel this way? maybe he really doesn't want to think like this and his family and friends make him feel like he has to follow their beliefs to belong or be loved. if this is so then you really need to find out the truth. if he really is a supremacist, then you need to leave him, you never know what is going to happen when you make him angry.
2007-09-04 07:27:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your mother is indian and he hates them, then not only are you disrespecting yourself by dating him, you're disrespecting your mother, because obviously he hates her. Maybe he's okay with you because you're half white. Why would you lower yourself to dating someone who hates your mother, and half of who you are? If you have any respect for her , or yourself, at all. You'll lose him.
2007-09-04 07:25:13 · answer #6 · answered by Dani 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a power/control issue to me. I'd be afraid he'd abuse me later, because he doesn't see me as a real equal, just a mongrel. Run Away Fast!!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-04 07:32:46 · answer #7 · answered by alaindrea 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
White supremacists are ugly, terrible, monsterous people. They flunk the #1 test for a good partner--socialization with different groups of people.
Drop him now and hope he doesn't stalk you.
TX Mom
2007-09-04 07:19:36 · answer #8 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 7⤊ 2⤋
Why even give a guy like that the time of day???? He says he loves you......... a person like that has no love for anyone.
If I were you I wouldnt take this chance. I'm sure your mother wouldnt like the thought of you being with someone like that.
2007-09-04 07:23:13 · answer #9 · answered by Julie L 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Why on Gods green earth would you ever want to be yoked with such an evil man? Racist people have nothing but murder and self love in their hearts.
Who cares why he is like it is, move on. Have some value in yourself and your heritage.
2007-09-04 07:18:27 · answer #10 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 9⤊ 2⤋