I have two friends,we are university classmates,we have been friends for about two and a half years.We go out and have lots of fun But my two friends do their projects together most of the time.We have to present another project in few days .since my frienship with both of them is getting really strong I thought that this time they would call me so we could do our projects together.Today while I called my friend she said nothing much till I heared my another friend talk,they were again doing their projects without me even without letting me know my friend was their.I reminded her even a simple invitation was enough!Should I continue being friends with them?
2007-09-04 06:56:26 · 7 answers · asked by yooooha_mastenger 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
maybe u should talk it out with them and tell them when they do that u feel left out. and if they continue to do things without you then maybe u should consider finding new friends.
2007-09-04 07:04:27 · answer #1 · answered by grown n sexy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, continue being friends with them. Don't throw the baby out with the bath water. Some people just naturally work well together for what ever reason. They seem to do just that. Three people on a project can complicate things ten fold compared to two. I understand you being hurt by this, but you have to be mature in this case and find another partner like yourself that needs an additional friend to balance things out. Don't take it too personally. Chucky says, friends til the end.
2007-09-04 14:08:19 · answer #2 · answered by diamondbullet66 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't STOP being friends with them. That's petty. Just tell them that it's upsetting you that they exclude you when it comes to doing projects and that you feel that you guys were getting close and had hoped to get an invitation to go over them, together. Just be calm and rational, and don't blame or accuse, it will just put them on the defensive. Tell them how you truly feel and allow them to explain themselves. If they're jerks about it, then give them a day or so to cool off. If they continue to exclude you from things, even though you already told them how much it hurt you, then explain to them that you can't be friends with people who knowingly hurt you like that.
2007-09-04 14:07:23 · answer #3 · answered by Diet Peach 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be honest with them and ask them whats up! It sounds like they dont want you involved for some reason or another so get to the bottom of it! If you are too scared to ask them then just see how they act in the future towards you and just pretend it doesnt bother you. Good luck!!
2007-09-04 14:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, be friends. Just a word of wisdom. You will eventually graduate...move away...get married...and start a new chapters in life. You cant' stay in the same place all the time and expect to improve. Its a part of life honey!
2007-09-04 14:04:28 · answer #5 · answered by Team 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well they aren't going to let you in that is for sure its hard to have 3 into anything always one is left out so i would find myself another firend and go for that.
2007-09-08 00:31:16 · answer #6 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but tell them that your non-inclusion has hurt your feelings.
2007-09-04 14:04:36 · answer #7 · answered by Robert C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋