do some women secretly enjoy being raped?

Answer 1

What I have learned is that focus on being raped attracts being raped or otherwise coerced whether it is hetero or not.
The study of modern cults is filled with examples of narcissistic leaders taking advantage of followers sexually and although charges are rarely pressed, one can find thousands of accounts thereof. Whether there is enjoyment or not is always a question difficult to answer but sometimes the rape is not resisted due to the victim's being convinced that they will gain something spiritual out of it. Once the information becomes more public, and this may take many decades, it can then be more easily believed that the victim was more than just non-resistant.

Answer 2

No, women tend to get enjoyment from not only the physical, but the emotional/mental aspec of sex. Most women have to not only be "in the mood" but also care for the person they are sleeping with to get complete satifaction. Being raped takes that out of the equation, so there for I think it would be difficult to find a women that would secretly enjoy being raped

Answer 3

Being seriously raped? I would have to say that no girl ever likes that, but a lot of gals like to role play and the like. One of my ex's would wear old panties, tank tops, shirts, etc, and tell me to rip them off of her... Fun stuff. I'm sure that if you looked at certain physical data, like if they got wet during rape, I'd say that some things like that do probably happen in a similar fashion to normal sex, but if you're asking do they really secretly enjoy being forced to have sex, I have to say that most girls are going to be upset with you for even asking the question...

Answer 4

There is definitely a type of woman (usually first noticed when the woman is young in her late teens and 20's) who has a "classic" history that includes some or all of the following: early sexual activity (roughly age 15 or earlier), promiscuity / multiple sexual partners, many sexual partners (somewhere in the ballpark of 20+ by the time they hit middle-age), risky and casual sexual experiences (lack of protection, multiple partners at a time or in a short time, one-night stands, etc), inappropriate sexual partners (a teacher, friend's spouse, their boss, etc), history of STDs (and +/- abortions), a plethora of healthcare visits for vaginal / breast / pelvic related complaints (pain, bleeding, UTI's, discharge, suspected STD, suspected pregnancy, nausea/voimiting related to lower abdominal pain, etc, etc) and often a childhood history of abuse or neglect (often it is sexual abuse, but do not underestimate the impact of simple parental neglect in producing this type of woman). Eating disorders may also be featured, as well as anxiety (such as panic attacks).

This woman will generally have AT LEAST one "rape" in her past (alleged rape). Usually she has been "raped" multiple times. Often the rape is accompanied with guilt and a desire to keep the incident secret from her partner (boyfriend, husband). Often the rape happens after an invitation (ie, the alleged perpetrator is invited into the woman's home by the woman herself or the woman accepts an invitation by the alleged perpetrator to meet him somewhere) and it often involves alcohol and/or drug use. Often these women will admit to rape fantasies and there are even instances in which the woman claims to have been raped by the same man multiple times (in situations where the woman is fully free to report the man to police, move or relocate, or is otherwise able to avoid or protect herself from the man).

Some people say that these women identify with being victims so strongly that they exude that to others (men) and a man who already has a tendency to seek out and take advantage of a "weak" female will pounce on the opportunity to do so with this type of woman. And that this happens over and over. The woman does little to avoid these men and these types of situations because she believes she deserves to be used or abused sexually and she takes teh stance of "learned helplessness". Some men (likely anti-social and deviant themselves) refer to these women in very negative terms: slut, whore, *** dumpster, a sexual "rag doll", etc. The worst of these men will also do things like film the sexual encounter (and then it shows up on YouTube and causes a scandal) or invite other men to watch or partake. Things can become very degenerate very quickly --- and leave the woman feeling rather used, shameful, remorseful, victimized, empty, thrown-away, etc. An accusation of rape may or may not be made.

So do these women LIKE being raped?

During the "rape" do they experience any sexual arousal or pleasure?

In interview some of these women DO STATE that they found the experience at least partially - often completely - arousing (and that they feel deep shame, guilty and/or a sense of "dirtiness" about this fact). The incident will often become incorporated into their future sexual fantasies and they may even find it difficult to become sexually aroused during consensual sex without some element of force or humiliation being present.

Now --- all that said ---- even if the woman "enjoyed" being raped, that does not mean that a bad thing (perhaps even a crime) did not occur.

Why?

Because even a child, who has experienced sexual abuse/sexual assault by an adult, may then have some or part of these experiences incorportaed into their sexual psyche and sexual being. Does that make it "okay" that the adult engaged in sexual activity with the child? If the child says, "it made me feel all tingly inside. I kind of liked it" - do we absolve that adult of any wrong-doing? Of course not.

These women are often those same children, grown-up.

And - btw - there are other rape cases in which the rape is very violent, completely "unsolicited" by the victim (usually a "stranger rape"), and, without a question, are NOT "enjoyed" by the victim by any stretch of the imagination.

Answer 5

Rape is not about sex. It is about stripping a person of their power. NO NO NO.

Answer 6

no- do men secretly enjoy being beated?

Answer 7

you've lost your stupid mind!!!... NO!!!!!!....