What is it that seems to attract you to this way of life? What do you think when you look at another woman? What do you feel? Again, this question is for people considering becoming lesbian; not for those already living the life and out of the closet.
2007-09-04 05:39:37 · 10 answers · asked by gatesofgold 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
"Considering"?
They are not choosing a vacation destination.
2007-09-04 05:44:44 · answer #1 · answered by Johnny 5 · 6⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't say that I am considering the lesbian life... but i would say that I am open minded. See the thing with me is that when I look at someone i see a person... male or female.. they are still a person with different bodies... I think that there are many people like that. I see a beautiful person... inside and out... and i find them attractive.
there are probably women out there that have been wronged by men and therefore find them discusting... and I am sure that there are women who find the male sexual organs stange and frightening... both cases may cause women to seek the company of other women.
There is also the line of thought that states that only a women can truely know what a women likes. I disagree with this... everyone likes different things and therefore you are the only one that know what feels good. your partner has to learn what these things are... whether they are male or female.
2007-09-04 05:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by pdsmonki0809 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What is it that makes you feel the way you feel when you look at a woman? What is it that attracts you to this way of life?
I'm a lesbian by birth just as people are heterosexual by birth. You don't "consider" to become a lesbian, you are or you aren't. There's no consideration involved. This is a ridiculously stupid question!
2007-09-04 05:56:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
What makes you think anyone considers lesbianism an option??!
That's comparable to being born caucasion and considering being Native North American in mid-stream of life!
I feel no different than any other member of the species except my orientation from birth is to be with another woman....physically, emotionally and spiritually.
The struggle is not the "option", it's having to deal with closed minded persons that believe homosexuality to be a "sin" or abnormal. It's being shun for that which there is no control....
2007-09-04 05:49:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I don't think anyone over the age of 25 actually chooses to be a lesbian. Female homosexuals are no different than male homosexuals--all evidence suggests one is born that way.
However, I have noticed that in the last decade or so there are a lot of women (especially college-age liberal arts majors) who seem to be temporary lesbians. For these women it usually begins as early as high school or as late as her third year in college. They are lesbians to the core...temporarily. Most have snapped out of it by the time they're 30.
2007-09-04 05:49:14 · answer #5 · answered by Peter D 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No one 'considers'. Becoming lesbian or gay. They are born that way
2007-09-04 05:45:11 · answer #6 · answered by Dannii n OC 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Everyone knows that gays and lesbians are pedophiles. Afterall, homosexuality is a gateway to pedophilia. By viewing gay porn and thinking of perverted gay thoughts, you are opening your mind to other dimensions and possibilities such as beastiality and pedophilia. Just look at organizations like NAMBLA which is also known as the National Man Boy Love Association. Heck - Nambla even has a women's auxillary which believes pedophilia should be legalized for women only.
2007-09-04 05:49:27 · answer #7 · answered by Joann Foxx 3 · 1⤊ 6⤋
I don't think you BECOME lesbian...
2007-09-04 05:43:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
yes its not a choice its how we are..so ur question makes no sense.
2007-09-04 05:48:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
dumbest question EVER!
2007-09-04 05:42:44 · answer #10 · answered by Saw 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋