How often would you ladies prefer to get intimate?
A little background: My friend told me she would be content with sex just once a month. I, on the other hand, want it 3 times a week. I get openly hostile if I have to go without for 10 days. All of my friends though I was weird for that. I am just curious to see how other women feel. Am I really a freak?
2007-09-04 04:39:30 · 12 answers · asked by doodlebuttus 7 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I am 30 and I have been with my husband for 12 years. I am definitely not too young for sex. I was just curious because so many women seem to be disinterested in sex.
2007-09-04 04:50:07 · update #1
I am 29 and been married for almost 11 years, we have sex anywhere from 6-8 times a week, usually everday and twice a day on the weekends most weeks. so girl if you are a freak what does that make me lol
2007-09-04 05:59:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I generally like to have sex with my husband every other day, and some days inbetween we exclusively do other things for each other instead of having intercourse. We've been married a year and a half, so I'm uncertain if that has anything to do with it.
I get incredibly irritable if I haven't had it in three days or more, lol.
You should also know that age and where you are in life has a lot to do with your sex drive.
It sounds like you have a healthy and normal sex drive.
EDIT: If you're 30 years old, you're at the peak of your sexual prime, which means your sex drive increases and your enjoyment of sex may also increase. This is perfectly normal, enjoy it while you can. I'm looking forward to my late twenties to early thirties just so I can be in my sexual prime.
2007-09-04 04:45:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If You are a freak that would make me one too....and I happen to know that I am not....My husband and I have been married a year and have just had our second child, our love life is great...We usually will have every day, we do skip days on occasion due to our 4 month old and exhaustion but we still make time for one another on a very frequent basis
2007-09-04 04:51:20 · answer #3 · answered by logey03 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every person is different what suits one will not suit another if you and your partner want to make love three times a week and enjoy then that is great. If you both only wanted to make love once a month that would be OK to it is what you both want to do that is the impotent thing
2007-09-04 10:01:26 · answer #4 · answered by john h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It varies for me...I may want it daily (or more) for a while, then less frequently...what's going on in life and my mood will typically affect my libido. There've been times in my life where I didn't care about sex at all, and times where that's all I could think about.
At 42, I think I still have a pretty healthy sex drive. ☺
2007-09-04 04:51:30 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some guys sexual drive slows sooner than others. Maybe trywearing something sexxy for him. Ya know lingerie and stuff. Also consider asking him to see a Dr. for a testosterone level test. If his testosterone is low there are shots and creams to bring the level back up, if its low.
2016-05-21 01:39:20 · answer #6 · answered by shannan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IVE BEEN WITH MY HUSBAND 13 YEARS AND I STILL WANT IT 3-4 TIMES A WEEK,SOMETIMES MORE. JUST MEANS YOU STILL HAVE A GREAT SEX LIFE. THATS GOOD,CONSIDERING THAT SEX SOMETIMES FIZZELS OUT AFTER SO MANY YEARS. YOU ARE NOT A FREAK,IF YOU ARE THEN I AM. LOL
2007-09-04 06:53:32 · answer #7 · answered by TABBYKAT34 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have a very high libido, so high in fact that no matter how much my bf satisfies me, i always want more within a few minutes!
poor thing would be dead now from exhaustion if he gave in every time! lol
2007-09-04 04:45:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
About twice a year would suit me. It takes too much effort! *LOL*
Having kids doesn't help.
Everyone's different.
2007-09-04 04:43:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could do without it totally...I'm 29
2007-09-04 05:15:55 · answer #10 · answered by stolen car 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋