u kno wat my parents r vry strict & hav a vry old knd of thnkng & i suffr alot bcoz of dat. wat should be done

Question

u kno i mean that they nvr allow me 2 hang out with my frnds&always accompany me evy where i go& i am tird of dat?

Answer 1

Do not worry. At your age parents may seem to be too strict but at the same time I can safely let you know that it is better to have strict parents than to have bad friends. & hat you cannot do/say in front of others is often not worth the saying!

Answer 2

You should go with your parents to family therapy and work out a plan.

You would tell the therapist that you want more freedom and they would state what they want. You would negotiate an agreement.

Perhaps if you got half A's and half B's or something like that, you'd be allowed to hang out with like-minded students until 10:00 on a school night and midnight on the weekends.

You have to prove to your parents that you are trustworthy and on a positive track and plan to remain this way.

Answer 3

It depends on your age. But what I would suggest, is that you sit your parents down and tell them that you appreciate their love and concern but you would like their trust also. Make an agreement that you will be home by a certain time and stick to that, build up their trust, introduce them to some of your friends and you will find this stranglehold will ease

Answer 4

Tell them about your friends in detail & invite them at home to introduce to your parents with their permission. This will clear misunderstandings. Most of the parents are worried for safety of their daughters as they suffer most in anything wrong happens & boys easily manage to escape. They do it for your safety. Safety principle says : "Safety first, anything else later. Prevent unsafe conditions before arrival." All your friends cannot be trusted by 100 % amount. In worst possible case, no parents want their lovely daughter to get pregnant in her tender age. For them no boyfriend is fully reliable, according to basic safety principles. This is in minds of most of parents.

Answer 5

Look parents really adore there children a lot and they become strict just to protect us from any disaster. so be cool, listen to them, talk to them. Let them understand you and then you will see a change.
Trust me all of us do have gone through this

Answer 6

I think you should try and talk to them.. if you are going out, i am sure you have a friend that your parents trust.. ask her to come and pick you up.. if any of your friends are going out and their parents are dropping them off, why don't ask them to pick you up and they also can meet your parents. I know it is hard, they love you, and sometimes you have to tell them that you need to do it yourself, you have to make them trust you.. Don't worry you are not alone out there, all your parents are doing is protecting you.. Be patient

Answer 7

study a lot & then whenever u wanna hang out wid ur frndz ask them and if they say no ask them why they alwayz say u no............u r gud in studies and alwayz behave nicely and i am sure they'll realize it and allow u to go and at other part some time its ur mistake also that ur parents be strict wid u

Answer 8

Man, I know your pain but even my strict parents let me go out with my friends and don't follow me wherever I go but they won't allow me to have sex till I'm eighteen, know how stupid is that?

Answer 9

I agree, If you took more time with your schooling, Learned to spell and write, and could show your parents that you were worthy of their respect you may get somewhere.

Answer 10

most of the parents are st rick,you say they are old fashion,but my point of view they are worried about you,if you wish to hang out with your Friends then prove to your parents that you will not do such thing that they fill same.