If so how was it, guilty, good dreamy etc..
2007-09-04 03:37:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have!! I was seeing a guy who was unbeleiveably CRAP in bed and I would lie on my back whilst he...performed, lol and think about my ex boyfriend or sometimes I would think about what bills I had to pay. It stopped me from falling asleep, lol.
I didnt feel guilty because I told this guy what I liked in bed and he ignored me and done what felt good for him.
2007-09-05 02:53:23 · answer #1 · answered by buff1ne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fantasy can be one of the most powerful reinforcements to ones natural 'abilities". Or the easiest way to self implode if one does not RESPECT a]your partner , b] yourself , or , c] the situations that got you to that pt. in the first place.
However ,I wouldn't blurt , scream ,or moan OUT LOUD said source fantasy's name AS THIS could be degradingly insulting,and / or suicidal. In that moment ,your partner is/SHOULD be the focus of ALL your attentions,"don't leave the table until ALL parties involved have HAD thier FILL" !
They deserve that ,despite HOW you may have accomplished it. 'Dream a little dream 4 me" [and for you 2 if that enhances the experience] . Hell , ask him/her to add to the mental imagery, PERHAPS that is something they TOO have silently been doing to survive Your unique 'characteristics'
You are only a GOD in your own eyes [or your mom's} , so any little enhancement you might/can/should contribute MAY be mutually advantageous. OOps ,TOO many words 2 say :fantasy = GOOD ,NO fantasy's = unimaginative! Don't b moron !!! = THINK. and enjoy life ,how many more of THOSE are you Expecting to have ???
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2007-09-04 04:27:38 · answer #2 · answered by dirkules 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have done before and if I'm completely honest i felt really guilty and soon realised that it wasn't just the one time I thought about the other person........ in my experience I was thinking about the other person cos I wanted them more than the person I was actually with.
2007-09-04 03:45:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, many situations. I in general close my eyes whhile love and foreplay and in a roundabout way i cant stop myself fantacising some dazzling bodies and love scenes which supply me extra excitement. additionally relies upon on the track i m listening. I even have got here upon that i purely fantacise when I m not extra in contact in the affection making technique.
2016-10-17 22:09:32 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
I never make love TO my partner (wife)
I make love WITH her. There is a world of difference.
2007-09-04 09:32:32 · answer #5 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im too busy having fun and enjoying myself to be thinking of anybody else.
2007-09-04 03:46:04 · answer #6 · answered by missy me 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont need to! I m all about the visual so wouldnt be able to even if i wanted to! i love looking at my other half when we are being naughty! x
2007-09-04 04:50:40 · answer #7 · answered by Carrie Bradshaw wannabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and good, fantasy in sex is a good thing, you can have a varied sex life without being unfaithful.
2007-09-04 03:43:47 · answer #8 · answered by matty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cant really answer your question, as I have not gone out with a girl as of a yet or even french kissed with one!
2007-09-04 03:43:16 · answer #9 · answered by Stu 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes and no. Not with my current partner, but in the past yes... Let me tell you in my dreams Hugh Jackman knows how to move it. :)
2007-09-04 03:59:15 · answer #10 · answered by Storm 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋