After 3 years i finally split up with my ex!. He was on here the other week asking for advice about getting his stuff and leaving. Dunno if any of you remember??. Well let me just say i have been asking him to collect his stuff for the past 2 months and when he finally did he still hasn't given my key back!. And as for the screaming down the drive way....AS IF!! Why after 3 years do blokes do this????
2007-09-04 02:24:37 · 11 answers · asked by x Jay Jay x 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Oh his question to every one last week he wrote that i was screaming after him down the drive way!!!!....Build a bridge and get over it!!!
2007-09-04 02:44:29 · update #1
Because the develop post-relationship man-madness. it goes away eventually - it just turns them into complete morons for a time.
2007-09-04 02:27:31 · answer #1 · answered by Gem Gem 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys dont like to deal with the messy things.
They will likely obey a command to get a suitcase or a box. That is all you need, really. Pack up his things, in a box or suitcase. Tell him to pick it up. or drop them off where he is. Why do you have to be there?There is no need for rehashing scenes, or getting the last digs or barbs in one last argument.
As for the key, his mind has dealt with that a long time ago. What is the first thing to do when you are kicking someone out of your house? Right- change the locks.
Was he screaming? or did he make his car screech and rattle and roll? If that is all , I suppose that is sort of well, not too bad an end of the relationship.
2007-09-04 02:38:03 · answer #2 · answered by QuiteNewHere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men, just tend to wake up in the morning and their lives have moved on. maybe he didn't want to pick his stuff up, it would only remind him of the past. You should ask for his keys back, or change your locks.. I tell you what if it was someone else, would have had his stuff in black bin liners and out in the garbage..
2007-09-04 02:30:27 · answer #3 · answered by Ruksana P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Immaturity. Since he has gotten his belongings out and hasn't returned the key, change the locks. Less drama and easy to do yourself.
Good luck
2007-09-04 02:29:38 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him and the key, just get your locks changed.
2007-09-04 02:29:24 · answer #5 · answered by Clarissa J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because their incapable of doing anything!!!
i split with mine 6 months ago and he still decides to try fight with any guy friends of mine or whoever im with on a night out................
u have to tell him 2 just
GET OVER U!!
haha!!
2007-09-04 02:28:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he still loves you and can't let you go and he knows that even though you may be 99% sure you don't want him back that 1% keeps him hagen on.
2007-09-04 02:29:28 · answer #7 · answered by tigger_93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because unfortunately some of us a just difficult bastards
2007-09-04 02:28:56 · answer #8 · answered by tbone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The need to defend his inadequacy?
Self-delusion?
Does it matter, if you have really got over it?
2007-09-04 09:37:30 · answer #9 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol awww, well sorry it didn't work out, wish ya luck in the future!
2007-09-04 02:28:05 · answer #10 · answered by ccstangfan2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋