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2007-09-04 02:12:05 · 41 answers · asked by blah 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Give her the number for the pregnancy hotline: 1-800-395-HELP. This is way to big for her to handle by herself.
2007-09-04 02:14:42 · answer #1 · answered by Kelsey H 6 · 6⤊ 3⤋
Planned Parenthood, a school counselor, maybe even her parents. More than likely they will find out. How old is "dad" by the way? A sexual relationship with a 12 yr old I consider child molestation. One thing is for sure, the problem won't go away by itself. There are going to be consequences. This is just the way it is. She wanted to play at being an adult and got some harsh reality. I really hope she LEARNS from this terrible circumstance. Rule one: Teenage boys(and even older) think with their penis.They will say ANYTHING to get sex. Not good, not bad. Just the way it is. Just try to be a good friend but don't get invovled doing anything stupid. There's been enough of that already. Good luck
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2007-09-04 02:27:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Oh hun, what a terrible situation.
She needs to tell her parents!!! Seriously, her body is under developed, and will not be ready to have a child developing in there, so she will also need to head off to a doctor, and check that everything is going ok, and she is getting adequate nutrition, and taking pre natal vitamins.
You can not do much, as Im guessing you are just as young, and have probably not been pregnant at 12. The best thing you can do is support her, and offer to be there when she tells her parents. Other than that, you will needs adult input.
Good luck!!
p.s- This is why children shouldnt be having sex, and why birth control is a MUST!!!!
2007-09-04 02:21:13 · answer #3 · answered by insane_blue_eyez 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Honey she is a 12yr old. She needs to talk to her parents. They need to sit down with her and talk to her because it seems like she is doing something she has no business doing at 12 yrs old. She needs a woman in her life that will be supportive of her. Tell her to talk to her parents and to not have an abortion think about adoption but never an abortion. And you are being a good friend.
2007-09-04 02:58:55 · answer #4 · answered by letitia.calloway 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She Needs to see a Doctor! Right now She really needs your support, she also needs the support of her parents. If you feel up to it tell her that you will accompany her to the dr and with her when she tells her parents. Just don't tell anyone for her right now, if you tell someone at the moment she is going to feel alienated, and at this moment she just needs someone to lean on. If after a month or two she still hasn't told anyone maybe you could say something to her mom or maybe a teacher? Honestly just be there for her, she is going through a lot right now and really needs you
2007-09-04 07:58:26 · answer #5 · answered by logey03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like she's going to need all the support she can get. Stand by her side and give her a shoulder to cry on. You could go with her to talk to a guidance counselor at school for moral support. Encourage her to take a healthy stance on this, not just physically, but emotionally as well. Her life has changed dramatically and she needs all the love and support she can get.
2007-09-04 03:29:07 · answer #6 · answered by Summer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to talk to her parents and talk to the fathers parents asap its important you stay at her side shes need a great friend right now and you would want the same thing...keep talkin to her about goin to the dr. and taken care of herself and also talk to her about keepin the baby or finding a great family to adopt the baby later....please let her know that abortion isn't an options
maybe talk to your mom about the idea and maybe have her talk to your mom or even the school nurse if talkin to your mom isn't an options the school nurse will be great for that kidna stuff
2007-09-04 06:11:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are 12 too then you really wont be equipped to help her deal with something as huge as this either. Just talk to her and tell her how important it is to tell her parents or to tell a trusted adult from school. A school counsellor or a friendly teacher will be able to help her with advice and how to go about telling her parents.
2007-09-04 02:17:38 · answer #8 · answered by SmEllY! 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
At her age, just advise her to talk to her parents and a doctor. They are the ones who should be helping her in this situation and decide where to go from here. what's done is done and can't be changed now. As for what for you to do, I don't think you can help her now.
2007-09-04 04:16:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my lord... what 12 year old has sex these days???? She has no choice but to go to her parents. She can go to her doctor, but because she's under 16 the doctor is obligated to call the parents.
WAY too young to be having a baby..
2007-09-04 02:18:46 · answer #10 · answered by darlene_tassone1971 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well you can't exactly help her other then to be there for her, if you truly are her friend you will help her through this. you should try to get her to see a doctor and to tell her parents of course. this is going to be very hard on her body as she herself is young and still growing. make sure she does talk ot her parents as child services will most likely be involed cause of her age.
2007-09-04 02:17:19 · answer #11 · answered by mummiefroggie 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋