1 time last yr i was looking thru history on computer and i found a place where hubby was looking at pics of only naked black females...I always look in history not cause im jealous or insecure about him looking at porn i just do it cause i am just curious to see if he ever does...That was the first and only time i found something like that..Does anybody find that weird especially since we are white.
2007-09-04 01:44:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, its not strange. People look to look, right?? Like you looking at the history, just to look. Nothing to worry about. Could have been worse, your husband looking at gay porn for instance.....now that would be something for you to be concerned about. If I were you I'd stop checking up on him, if there is a will...there is a way. Good Luck!
2007-09-04 02:09:42 · answer #1 · answered by Cheri >^.^< 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the history on our computer one day, trying to find a site that I had been to before, and found an anal sex porn site. I knew that I hadn't been to it, nor had our son who was 3-4 at the time, so that left my husband. I asked him if he knew where it came from and he said no. My sister had been over a couple days before and got on the Internet, so I asked her. No one knew how the porn got on there. I went to "digging" through the computer and found nothing. Then one day I was surfing the net and this little thumbnail window popped up. When I went to click the "x" to close the window, and got bombarded with porn sites. There was way over 30 pages opening, all nasty porn. I had to shut down the computer to get rid of them. Come to find out, one of the pages that I had clicked on was sponsored by a porn site. I had no idea. The site wasn't even porn related, relationships period wasn't even mentioned let alone sex, but by being on it it triggered the porn sites to open.
Long story short...It may not be that your hubby was looking up porn. I've talked with lots of people and they all seem to have had porn pop up at one time or another. Just ask your hubby openly about it, and voice your concern, but be respectful.
P.S.
You should try to be more trusting. Looking up the history tying to see if he is looking at porn is not having a trusting, open, honest relationship. You seem to have trouble w/ insecurity. If you find that he is not guilty of looking at porn, you need to apoligize to him and make a real effort to be more trusting. Today it's checking the history on the computer...tomorrow you're staking out his work and tapping your home phone lines.
2007-09-04 09:21:05 · answer #2 · answered by Strong w/ Jesus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would make me think that he desires to have sex with a black woman. Its pretty obvious that he is curious and intrested in something here. I would confront him and ask him what he is thinking and ask him what it was that he was looking at and tell him that it made you look at him differently. I would get this out in the open and let him know that this has affected you for the past year. If he has not had anything come up in history in the past year maybe it was only a one time thing and you really don't have anything to worry about. If it has and keeps coming up then you know this is strange and you need to find out what is going on with him.
2007-09-04 09:04:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
why would that be weird women are women they look the same have the same bits just different shades of skin. It would be the same if you saw naked white women. Next time why don't you just ask him instead of checking the history like some kind of PI
2007-09-04 08:50:51 · answer #4 · answered by sarah W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many white people get jungle fever from time to time. Nothing wrong with curiosity. You don't wonder what it would be like to be with a black man?
2007-09-04 08:49:42 · answer #5 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can justify it any way you like...you ARE jealous...you know that men have to take care of themselves a lot more than girls do right? In general we do anyway, and after 2 solid nights of I'm tired and I have a headache, even National Geographics start looking good...
2007-09-04 08:54:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are weird honey !
2007-09-04 08:53:30 · answer #7 · answered by gloria b 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
not at all ,how about curious???
2007-09-04 08:57:20 · answer #8 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋