I'm not gettin these men. I'm a good woman maybe to good. I have a husband and he aint livin up to his standards. I say this because he has everything a person could want for what is considered a good life. But looks for ways to ruin it. I see this in a lot of men never happy with what that have. I see that they can keep relatsionships alive so they want to move on to other woman. And when they find out that they already had what there lookin for they want to come back. Just sick
2007-09-04 01:30:21 · 10 answers · asked by betty boo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your question is to simplistic. People, not just men get bored in their relationships for all sorts of reasons. If he is cheating on you then you need to set him straight. If he seems lost to you ask him what he is thinking, maybe he is not. You have to communicate and this will all pass if you come together as a couple. Otherwise, he will get bored then you will get bored then it will not make sense anymore and one or both of you will want out of the relationship. Trust me I know wome with the same problem and their husband feel like you do.
2007-09-04 01:37:25 · answer #1 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men are just philanders or they may even be sex addicts and never happy with having only one woman. When a man runs a continous pattern of cheating and keeps coming back home and the women allow it they both need counseling because the man is playing a dangerous game with possibly contacting an std that could put both of their lives in danger....and if you have children involved who will be left to care for them? Men that constantly cheat on their wives have issues and some severe underlying problem going on..... and if they can't get right the women married to them need to divorce them and remove themselves from the dangerous and stressfull relationship.
2007-09-04 09:15:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quote "I'm a good woman maybe to good" I take it you mean "too good"? Either way I doubt it very much if your choice in men has been so bad.
You are discrediting all the decent men out there, and that skews your views so you will never find happiness.
2007-09-04 09:01:10 · answer #3 · answered by Paul M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What he is missing is a relationship with God. If 2 people don't have a mutual relationship with God, and believe in his teachings one or both starts sleezing around doing what you described.
You can count on it. You can try to fix your situation, but it may not work. You take men 'as is' because they won't change until they see the benefit for themselves. Some are just stupid, and you can't fix stupid!
2007-09-04 09:03:04 · answer #4 · answered by Credit Expert 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the man....Some guys have the "grass is greener" syndrome. They find a girl,they settle down,and start seeing more options. Those kind of guys never really find someone to make them happy. Not all guys are bad; sometimes that's all you find. And be careful with assumptions.. You may be judging guys too quickly.
2007-09-04 08:54:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're looking at the wrong men.......and putting a bad word out on the good ones.
Men are like us.....there are good ones and bad ones.....you happened to marry a bad one and only see the bad ones.
There's nothing wrong with men today.
2007-09-04 08:35:26 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not afraid to admit that you speak the truth.
I think it has to do with our "hunting" instincts. We have to keep looking for something "better."
It is a big fault we have. No question of it.
2007-09-04 08:41:27 · answer #7 · answered by Joseph G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it just men? I hear of many women doing the same.
2007-09-04 08:40:36 · answer #8 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to answer hun, we are not al like that, it is not you fault. So if you love him hang in, if not leave, but you have to be happy
2007-09-04 08:35:41 · answer #9 · answered by cannot_remember_chit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Goes both ways honey !
2007-09-04 08:35:06 · answer #10 · answered by gloria b 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋