work and even on his days off all he would do is eat and sleep on the couch. Would you be upset.
2007-09-04 01:08:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have to do the P_Poppin dance in front of him to get him aroused!
2007-09-04 01:15:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What kind of work does he do? How long does he work, and is it mentally or physically draining? I used to get so offended when my husband wanting to sleep when it wasn't "sleeping hours," but I got over it because I realized that he was genuinely tired! If this is the case, pray that God change his schedule so you two can have more time together. Try to do some hobbies that he likes specifically. This will interest him and help him to realize he has a good woman, especially if he knows you aren't particularly insterested in his hobbies.
2007-09-04 08:56:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he was staying tired all the time than maybe there is something the matter with him that is causing him to be that way. He could be depressed alot of times guy's carry the weight of the world on there shoulders and it is hard for them to express how they feel. You should make him a doctors apt to see if there is something else wrong as well. Just to cover the bases. It sounds like he works hard and needs to rest but maybe if you help spice somethings up he'll have reasons to stay awake lol
2007-09-04 08:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by ~~Just me~~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends, how many hours does he work? Id start making arrangements/plans for us and tell him in advance, you dont work do you? you stay at home? working can make you fall into a horrible routine when you get home, i know on my drive i say im going to do this that and the other, then i get home and i cook dinnner, talk and play with the kids, eat dinner as a family get them all ready fo rbed, bed story, shower and im done but before i got out here id get home take a 30 min nap then start he was pissed but he came to understand, and wed reserve Sundays for doing things and, do the same and if not go out alone and he'll start to get it
2007-09-04 08:21:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. I don't need a partner if all they are going to do is eat and sleep. I want someone who I can spend time with, share hobbies with, explore life with.
Couch potatoes should marry couch potatoes.
2007-09-04 08:52:02 · answer #5 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be glad he's at home and not alseep on some other woman's couch. Things could be far worse, girlfriend.
2007-09-04 08:23:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I'd be upset. I'd tell him I work too so get his *** up off that couch, I need my rest.
2007-09-04 08:15:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be frustrated, try and drag him out of the house and get some sun shine, if you keep allowing this behaviour it will continue and you will continue to feel this way.
2007-09-04 08:16:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband works very hard at work , and very hard around our home and his mothers home, other than that he is asleep, use to upset me, but now I realize how hard he works, and it doesnt bother me at all if he's sleeping, guess I just got use to it!
2007-09-04 10:55:30 · answer #9 · answered by been there 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably depends on the type of work he does, and if it warrants all the sleep.
2007-09-04 09:15:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suspect he was experiencing clinical depression and encourage him to see a doctor.
2007-09-04 08:25:51 · answer #11 · answered by Penelope Smith 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋