my friends are on the edge?

Question

it seems like my friends are all crazy, when im with any of my mates (boys/girls) with im with one of them on my own they seem to have the best time ever, but as soon as we all get together even little things will piss them off like im going out side, ok you my say im a push over witch i would argue with but still why do they act different around just me and all the rest

Answer 1

Its a fundemental rule of human interaction buddy. Theres small group dynamics and then theres interpersonal relationship dynamics. Idealy you should be pretty much the same individual in both situations. This isn't usually the case, just think of it like this, in small groups to large groups we hide are hearts, more or less. Now in interpersonal relatioships (one-on-one) we tend to drop the pride and be more heartfelt with people. Sometimes thou its pride in both places and its all manipulation, but its hard to tell the differences sometimes, without experience with both....