I don't want to whine, but I need an outlet for all this upset and anger.
Why is life so unfair?
I have nothing... absolutely nothing.
I feel like I'm cursed.
Nothing good ever happens... seriously.
WHY?
2007-09-03 20:23:13 · 21 answers · asked by cosmicmoon 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
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2007-09-03 20:26:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
There are times in life when it seems like nothing but bad things happen. After my divorce, I had virtually nothing, I was feeling pretty crappie about everything.I wanted to blame some one, my, God, the courts, somebody I didn't care.
Then I was told I had cancer. Great the icing on the cake!
I think I hit my emotional bottom that day. After having a emotional melt down, I really had to decide whether I was going to dig in and fight, or just let it take me. I went to all my planning meetings and started my treatments. I really just didn't care. But the whole process changed my life. i realized that it wasn't that life was cruel and hard, it was how my attitude affected everything around me. When I put out negative , I got negative. Every thing I've learned about positive thinking I learn from a 10 year old. She had cancer on and off since she was 5. But she was positive and wore her burden with bravery and pride, always happy , always hopeful , always something funny to say.
She got me through, I survived she did not.
It isn't life that is cruel, it is what we become, how we deal with disappointment and the everyday ups and downs. Nothing good ever happens? There are wonderful things happening all around us everyday, we just don't see sometimes beyond our own pain and sadness, you have to let the good things happen, starting from the inside out.
2007-09-04 03:46:38 · answer #2 · answered by ladyhawk8141 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're right sweetheart. I think the only way to make any difference in your life is to live it in the way you feel comfortable and sod the rest.
In my opinion, i would have a wonderful life if it wasn't for other people. Unfortunately we have no choice but to live amongst them.
And hun, you have a lot more to your'e life than you think.
You're not cursed. Here's me, telling you all this, when i have issues much the same as yours. Why oh why is life such a *****? A black comedy that isn't even slightly amusing. I don't know what it's all about but im here for a bitching session if you're up for it.
2007-09-04 14:41:26 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things will get better. They have to. When we are born we have no guarantee of fairness.
We can hope there will be better days ahead and we can know we will have to work for them. Find someone or something to love and hold onto that.
Good luck. I hope this will encourage you a little bit. Don't let life grind you down.
There is a lot of good in life, and a lot of wonderful people. That may be hard to see right now, but be patient and be tough enough to see all of this through. Life will get better.
I will pray for you.
2007-09-04 03:36:26 · answer #4 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
you should have my life then!!!!
Remember there are always people worse off than you,
that's how i get through the days.
I am disabled due to a accident, in constant pain 24/7, i get fed up with the amount of medication i have to take.
have little money, can not get out much, live to far from my friends and family,
my list could go on and on.
2007-09-04 03:57:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a lot of things that people would be jealous of..but
I have lived very rough life... but people do not realize I have lived or living very rough life where I am constantly bombered with ideas of suicide and revenges..
so you can't assume that people with more stuff havent had difficulties u are having..
but I think if you are a good person..good things happen to you.
I truely believe in it..
2007-09-04 03:28:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because that is the way you choose to see the world...
You choose to believe that nothing good ever happens and choose to concentrate on the negative...
Life is hard sometimes...and it can suck sometimes...
But to say nothing good ever happens is completely irrational...
There is always something to be positive about even on the worst day...whether it be something as small as the weather was nice or something as big as winning the lottery.
2007-09-04 03:36:14 · answer #7 · answered by SquirrelPanic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am from afghanistan
i was the same
i hade nothing, we had nothing to eat.......... i really get sad when i think of those days, we had no cloth we had nothing to burn in winters,
all of aunts and uncles are leaving abroad, after we came to our country from Pakistan every one stopped helping us financially even my grand parents. but know i really thank my god, i am much better then before, and i am sure every will be more good with me,
you don't have to worry every thing will be fine very soon
and thats what i guaranty just don't lose hope.
take care and be happy
2007-09-04 03:35:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll be your outlet if you wish. Would you like to have a good rant about all the utter bollocks in the world?
2007-09-04 11:51:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh' darling,.
If you only know, I am in a position to see what the other half,
experience in their tragic empty lives,.
I recently try to help this young man, [no drugs drink] attributed to him, He ended his sad life,,
and seeing old people abandoned in care homes, who are .
lonely' weep all day,,
I'm just scratching the surface to what I see,
2007-09-04 04:01:31 · answer #10 · answered by denis9705 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because sometimes life can suck.
But everything happens for a reason, sometimes bad things happen so you can appreciate it more when good things happen.
:]
2007-09-04 03:51:10 · answer #11 · answered by ♥Gillian.. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋