We have been acquainted for nearly 2 years. We have been intimate about 2 times (one session occurred during a weekend trip). He is married but seperated and has always maintained the perspective that if he chooses not to acknowledge his feelings, then they don't really exist.
Sometimes he picks a piece a loose hair from the nape of my neck and says, "I just wanted an excuse to touch you." He was coming to town one day and said, "I wish that I could see you." He is always saying how much he enjoys our conversations and how much I "stimulate" him.
Things have been a bit strained between us since I lied about eloping a few months ago because I was hurt and felt stupid when he told me about this "friend" that he'd always been crazy about over drinks one day. I was supportive and offered him best wishes but--then I initated sex--after saying "I don't want to add to your confusion". He has since moved to my town and is planning to get a divorce. Should I fess up about not being married?
2007-09-03 19:39:59 · 4 answers · asked by Mackenzie Walsh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Errr, yes ! Why even ask the question?
It's obvious you're waiting for his divorce to come through, and the fact he's moved to your town will make life hard for you to conceal that you're NOT married!
Seems like you want to be with this guy. So don't be stupid, confess you're not married, and enjoy the ride......!
2007-09-03 19:51:09 · answer #1 · answered by mamabear_45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he best thing for you to do is run hes a mistake looking to hanppen. you don't want to be with this guy hes not really a very good person if you know what i mean. hes not really carrying for you its himself. and suspectg he can't really have a relationship hes not going to do good by you and i can see why you have written you know in your heart hes ot for you and there is someone out there waiting and just take a chance and find someone else.
2007-09-07 16:57:05 · answer #2 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why you're so concerned with being honest with him when he is sleeping around on his wife with you.His comment about the other woman that he likes was his way of letting you know his feelings for you don't go much further than sex.
2007-09-03 19:50:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never good to be dishonest in a relationship. He may like it because you are married, and for his purposes, it would be safe to assume that you would not be pressuring him into marriage.
2007-09-03 19:52:39 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋