We had a chid together, CAS placed me in care and control of our 4 yr old. Instead of marrying me, she chose to marry a "mentally hanicapped" man, who is controlling and violent in nature, besides his jealousy when the ex and I speak on the phone regarding our daughter,
I am an independant person, and I feel uncomfortable with her dumb questions, her dubious bad decisions and general nosiness regarding my business.
2007-09-03 19:35:17 · 6 answers · asked by PAUL A 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell her if she wanted to know every little aspect of your life she should have married you instead of what his face, but as it stands you really don't see where what you do is of any concern to her &you would really appreciate it if she would just stop playing 20 questions with you. If that doesn't work get caller I.D. & don't answer when she calls, or say you have to go to the restroom or somethings cooking I gotta go bye & hang up.
2007-09-03 20:04:57 · answer #1 · answered by thepeacelover01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that the only thing that she has any right to know, is that the child is being well taken care of. Tell her that everything else in your life is none of her business. You can also request that this guy not be there when your child is there due to his problems. Talk to your attorney about that!!
2007-09-03 19:41:19 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way is 2 ignore the questions and hope it will all fade. she will not change & it may get worse as the child gets older. make sure U remind Ur kid that they do not have 2 answer any questions that r adult questions as they get older or they may feel pressured by their mother. keep all of the contact plain and do not share more than u need 2 it will only fuel the fire. good luck.
2007-09-03 20:02:02 · answer #3 · answered by mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her it's none of her business. Only discuss your child and nothing more. If you have custody, you shouldn't have many conversations with her. I'd be very careful about when your daughter is around this man...
2007-09-03 19:42:35 · answer #4 · answered by Crossfire Kelly 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should just answer her questions on ur child only. if she asks questions on ur life then tell her she should remember who her husband is. that once she made that choice ur personal life is none of her business. if u don't make it clear 4 her she will never get the hint or understand u.
2007-09-03 19:55:23 · answer #5 · answered by cherryblossom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that
2007-09-03 22:14:22 · answer #6 · answered by deedee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋